GF got engaged after two weeks of “needing some space”
Let me start by saying that my GF and I were together for 9 months. When u met her she was in a relationship with another guy and she left him to be with me (I know I know). Three weeks ago we got into an argument and she said she needed some time off after the fight. I tried contacting her to apologize for everything I said to her. I was always the one apologizing even if it wasn’t my fault.
We talked multiple times about marriage and building a future together. After three weeks of trying to contact her she finally answered her phone. She told me she met a new guy and is going to “explore her options” with him.
I begged her and plead to her to fight for our relationship. I humiliated myself, not my proudest moment, to get her back. She lifts her hand and BOOM an enhancement ring.
She said she met this new guy a week after we fought and after two weeks they got engaged.
I really feel terrible. I ignored all the red flags. I have nobody to blame for my pain but myself.
But can you guys please give me some encouragement or advice in how to stop thinking about her and how to get out of this black hole.