u/Constant-Computer129

I am remote worker and migrated to U.S last year so I didn’t really meet any girl in real life only used dating apps but all I see the women in the U.S. on apps are so spoiled, arrogant, and just looking for validation and using such apps as a game because of their indefinite options. I traveled many countries and used dating apps there too and I was able to meet literally meet a new girl everyday and all I was offering them was a coffee date and if a woman was talking about a meet up she would %90 would come. (Except Brazil, women loved playing games there too) Some people think that women in the U.S. earn more than the women in the rest of the world but believe me it’s not the case, the the thing is they are there just for games lol. it’s easy for me to get matches but for the meet up hoes just playing, high probably she finds a guy who is a 1 inch taller than me and goes onto his lap and after finding a inch taller than that guy, goes to another lap. Basically whoring around.

EDIT: women earn more here for sure is not the issue because most people still live shitty life here, most of the people are in debts, half of the salary goes to rent and car loan. “Women earn more here that’s why they are spoilt” can’t be the valid argument IMHO. (Assuming that any Pounder is not a sponsor for her lifestyle) Because they are not living “princess” lifestyle to be that weird and arrogant. Half of them doing min wage jobs even 🤷🏻‍♂️

Please don’t order host/busser positions. All I need is to know more place names, like you can give example from yourself or someone you know hired. Some I know are Olive Garden and amc theaters..

and how long have you been in the industry? Specify your gender pls 💫

I’m currently in Arizona, and because of the extreme summer heat, business has slowed down quite a bit. I’ve applied to around 30–40 chain restaurants. I had one interview, and I also spoke with managers at a couple of other chain restaurants in person. They basically told me hiring should pick up again around August or September.
The problem is that I don’t want to wait that long.
Most of the openings I’m seeing right now are for food runner or To Go Specialist positions paying around $12–13/hour, which is too low for me. My goal is to get hired as a server at a casual chain restaurant like Applebee’s, Olive Garden, Chili’s, Texas Roadhouse, etc., even though I don’t have serving experience.
I’ve noticed there seem to be a lot more server openings in Midwest states like Ohio and Indiana. I don’t have a lease in Arizona, and I don’t have family here, so relocating wouldn’t be a huge issue.
Do you think it would be a smart move to relocate to the Midwest specifically to land my first serving job? It feels like Phoenix has so many applicants that restaurants can afford to be very selective and mostly hire experienced servers. I’m wondering if I’d have a better chance in the Midwest.
I’d really appreciate hearing from people who work in the restaurant industry or have made a similar move. Thanks!

I’m currently in Arizona, and because of the extreme summer heat, business has slowed down quite a bit. I’ve applied to around 30–40 chain restaurants. I had one interview, and I also spoke with managers at a couple of other chain restaurants in person. They basically told me hiring should pick up again around August or September.
The problem is that I don’t want to wait that long.
Most of the openings I’m seeing right now are for food runner or To Go Specialist positions paying around $12–13/hour, which is too low for me. My goal is to get hired as a server at a casual chain restaurant like Applebee’s, Olive Garden, Chili’s, Texas Roadhouse, etc., even though I don’t have serving experience.
I’ve noticed there seem to be a lot more server openings in Midwest states like Ohio and Indiana. I don’t have a lease in Arizona, and I don’t have family here, so relocating wouldn’t be a huge issue.
Do you think it would be a smart move to relocate to the Midwest specifically to land my first serving job? It feels like Phoenix has so many applicants that restaurants can afford to be very selective/spoilt and mostly hire experienced servers. I’m wondering if I’d have a better chance in the Midwest.
I’d really appreciate hearing from people who work in the restaurant industry or have made a similar move. Thanks!

(Asking the guys)
How different has your experience been with dating apps versus meeting people in real life?
I’ve been working remotely for a long time, so I’ve relied on dating apps for most of my social life. Honestly, they haven’t been a great experience for me. Soon I’ll be getting out more and becoming more socially active, so I’m curious:
Have you had much better luck meeting women through work, hobbies, friends, or other social events than on dating apps?
Maybe you or someone you know struggled on the apps but ended up meeting a great partner in real life.
Dating apps just seem really trash to me these days, so I’d love to hear your experiences.

I am 5’9 guy, Turkish ethnicity, as a new immigrant, Phoenix, Portland, and the Bay Area have been full of ghosting and last-minute cancellations for me. Is the Midwest (Indianapolis, Columbus, Cincinnati, Milwaukee, etc.) noticeably different, or is it the same everywhere? I hope it is , because when I was on my Latin America vacations, I could meet up everyday different lady, so I believe I don’t have terrible look and style but something is wild about the US overall I think!

Hey everyone,
I’m planning to move to Wisconsin soon and looking to get an NO EXPERIENCE serving/bartender job (ideally at chain restaurants like Chili's, Olive Garden, etc.).
Since we are in late June and the summer heat is kicking in, I wanted to check with the locals or anyone in the industry: Are restaurants actively hiring right now, or is there a major summer slowdown? How is it easy to get hired as a server/bartender without experience. It’s currently impossible here in AZ because of excessive heat.
Thanks in advance !