Direct clitoral stimulation feels numb/painful to me. Anyone else?
I literally feel NOTHING from direct clitoral stimulation (like think the white circle). If anything, it feels numb, and sometimes even uncomfortable or painful to touch. The first time I lifted the hood to see the clitoris it genuinely hurt and I had a weird pins/needles feeling. Toys that focus on the clitoris have never ever worked for me at all. The thought of putting something vibrating anywhere near there sounds incredibly painful and uncomfortable.
The only way I feel pleasure/orgasm is through rubbing the inner folds of my labia. I recently learned that the clitoris actually has internal “stems” that extend inside, so now I’m wondering if that’s what I’m actually stimulating instead? If so does that still count as a clitoral orgasm?
Lastly my orgasms are way more mental than physical that’s why I don’t understand how girls can just use a toy without imagining anything and still orgasm. Like the concept of getting an orgasm just from a physical toy perplexes me. I’m curious if anyone else is like this because I always hear people talk about clitoral stimulation as the main thing and I’ve genuinely never related to it and I actually want to go to a gyno or something to figure it out and make sure everything’s okay haha.