u/Cookie_Mindless

Hello, I’m in the army and as the title says I’m wanting to see if I can go home for my dads bday to surprise him, but the difficult part is I have 10 leave days for it and my dads bday on 31 and anniversary is 20th so I have to choose in between, I told my gf that we can celebrate it after, as a late anniversary so I can be there for the bday, that about sums it up, she got upset at it, I see why but am I wrong for it? I’m genuinely confused and want to see some feedback

Ngl I been searching for so long but I just see detailing and tunnel car washes, any hand car washes around here to anyone’s knowledge?