23F crush on co worker 38M
I’ve been at this firm for a year now. In the beginning, I kept my distance and stayed strictly professional with everyone. Lately, though, I’ve developed a strong physical attraction to one of the partners which feels complicated, since his girlfriend also works here. He’s caught my eye looking back at me a few times, and he recently sent me a follow request on social media, which struck me as a bit unprofessional. I accepted it, but nothing’s come of it since.
This crush feels overwhelming like it’s taken over my thoughts. Based on catching him staring at me a few times, I have a feeling he might be interested too. Whenever I talk to him, I get so nervous my whole body shakes. I’m torn on whether to act on it or just let it go. Part of me thinks that if I made a move, I’d eventually have to leave my job. I don’t know what to do. I really want to act on it.
TLDR: crush on coworker