Boyfriend has a low libido
I (25F) have been with my partner (30M) for almost 5 years and our relationship is perfect. We love each other so much, we have a lot of fun together and we just work in every aspect.. except our sex life. I would say after the first year he started declining sex with me more and more. He was very upfront with that it wasn’t about my looks, his sexual attraction towards me or anything like that. He told me that he is very happy with how I am in bed and overall very happy in our relationship, he just doesn’t have the same crave for intimacy as I do. I was very honest with him from the beginning of our relationship both with my actions and words that I have an extremely high libido. We have talked several times throughout the years about this problem and he’s said that he will try to do more but life always just continues on and nothing changes.
I told him several times that I can tone it down and that I don’t need to have sex 2-3x a day to be happy, I will be satisfied with doing it maybe 2x a week. I also stopped initiating and talking about it since he told me that it just creates more pressure for him. Everything that he has told me to do/not to do I have respected and done. We have sex maybe once a month, sometimes once every other month. I don’t know what to do anymore or if anyone is in a similar situation. I love him so much, I love our life together and the last thing I want is for us to part ways… but I’m becoming increasingly miserable and I feel so neglected in that aspect. Every thought and idea is greatly appreciated.