u/Coolyo2119

I would personally love to find some more female friends. I find that it can be so hard to find friends now a days. I love art, gaming, music,politics, movies, and anime!!

Would love to just chat, have fun, and make some genuine friendships.

What do you do when you talk with your partner about your anxieties and your hard feelings for hours of the day for many days of the week because you are an anxious person and you feel like the reason the talks go on for so long is because you have to keep explaining your emotions and that they don't tell you the things that help you calm down.

The problem that my partner says to me is that they don't have time. They don’t have time because they work long hours and also because we talk so long about my hard feelings and anxieties. The problem comes back again that I feel like we talk about it for so long because my needs don't get met when I do talk about it. Like getting reassurance that would help or acknowledging some of the things I said. How do you break this circle? It is hard when I also have a lot of anxiety days because of the mental health disorders I have that can cause random days to be extremely emotionally anxious or depressing for no reason and I can’t control it and I feel like i do need that extra support those days but it often feels like i need help a lot of days

tl;dr How do you solve a cicular problem where one partner feels tired all the time and the other feels like their needs aren't getting met.