u/Correct-Owl-543

Found freshly opened box of condoms in boyfriend’s room. We don’t use them

For context, I’m 25F, boyfriend is 28M. We’ve been together over a year but don’t live together. He’s had the condom box in there since before we even started dating. I found them in his wardrobe while cleaning one time and the box was still sealed.

We’ve both been on the same page that we’re waiting until marriage to have intercourse because I’m still a virgin. He is not. We still fool around sometimes but have not crossed that line and know we won’t be until marriage.

Yesterday morning though, I was putting away a pair of his socks in his underwear drawer and noticed that he’d opened the box that’s been closed for over a year. Three strips of two were still in the closed box. Two strips of two were laid out on top of his underwear. This is a 10 pack box.

He never uses condoms for masturbation, and that box has sat untouched for well over a year. He also had already had some loose ones in a small bowl on his nightstand from his previous relationship, so why open fresh ones? All condoms mentioned don’t expire for another year or so and all are the same type/brand, FYI.

What does this all mean? Is he planning to cheat?

TL;DR: bf of over a year suddenly opened a box of condoms that’s been sealed in his dresser since before me. Two strips are laid out on top of his underwear. We don’t have intercourse and don’t plan to until marriage because I’m religious. What does this mean? Is he planning to cheat?

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u/Correct-Owl-543 — 5 hours ago

Found opened condom box in my bf’s room. We don’t use them (25F and 28M).

For context, I’m 25F, boyfriend is 28M. We’ve been together over a year but don’t live together. He’s had the condom box in there since before we even started dating. I found them in his wardrobe while cleaning one time and the box was still sealed.

We’ve both been on the same page that we’re waiting until marriage to have intercourse because I’m still a virgin. He is not. We still fool around sometimes but have not crossed that line and know we won’t be until marriage. He’s planning to propose to me in the next 6-9 months.

Yesterday morning though, I was putting away a pair of his socks in his sock drawer and noticed that he’d opened the box that’s been closed for over a year. Three strips of two were still in the closed box. Two strips of two were laid out on top of his socks. This is a 10 pack box.

He never uses condoms for masturbation, and that box has sat untouched for well over a year. He also had already had some loose ones in a small bowl on his nightstand from his previous relationship, so why open fresh ones? All condoms mentioned don’t expire for another year or so and all are the same type/brand, FYI.

What does this all mean? Is he planning to cheat?

TL;DR: bf of over a year suddenly opened a box of condoms that’s been sealed in his dresser since before me. Two strips are laid out on top of his socks. We don’t have intercourse and don’t plan to until marriage because I’m religious. What does this mean? Is he planning to cheat?

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u/Correct-Owl-543 — 7 hours ago