u/CowboyLikeMe0608

Hi all,

Trying to plan wedding entertainment for the evening but myself , partner and all our friends (27-32Yr old) would all love Ibiza house type vibes for the night do. However , it’s not exactly something the older generation at the wedding would pick to dance to.

We want a DJ/Sax type vibe for evening and some chill music in the day. I was thinking the daytime we could have some more classics played, then have our type of music for evening.

So my question is, do you tailor your music at your wedding to all generations? Or as it’s our day, do we pick what WE want?!

Thanks!!

Having a bit of a meltdown at costs now I’ve come to plan my own wedding. The places I dreamed of from socials are mostly unaffordable and it’s hitting quite hard.

I am torn between an immediate family wedding, or the 60 guest wedding I dreamed of. I could do a London Town hall/dinner for 10k or less. The venue I love for 60 however would probably come out about 20-25k all in.

I don’t know if it’s worth the sacrifice of scrimping and saving and not living my life for a couple years, for 1 day.

Advice welcomed on how you made your decision? And if you did the big day, do you have regrets?

***Modified to add parents contributions are about 12k. We already have a home and don’t want kids.