u/CreationaryPhoenixh

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Edit: I am a certified coach. My niche is relationship manifestation and I specialise in manifesting a specific person.

I have learnt from my own journey of over 17 years of practising the law of assumption and 8+ years of SP related manifestation..

It took me such a long time because I did a lot of trial and error and tried things on my own. While I understood theory well enough, applying it to my own life and actually following it was the challenge for me.

And so I have definitely had more “failures” than most people have tried. Which is why I understand pretty much any situation that you might be in, and this is my expertise as a coach.

I have helped over 50 clients personally (one on one) and 94% of them have manifested their relationship - ended up engaged and married to their Specific Person. And the other 6% have ended their relationship with SP because that was too toxic and when they levelled up their self concept, they realised they deserve better.

So all of them are now much happier in their relationship - with themselves and with their SP.

I had inner voice tell me today that I want to increase my impact.. reach more people in the world and that is why i decided to do this.

Please reach out to me on DM or comment here if you would like this one time free session from me. In this session, we will identify the primary reason why SP manifestation has not worked for you so far and how to solve for it.

I will be giving the free sessions to those who are:
a) feeling stuck in the sp situation and don’t know what to do next
b) tried a lot of things, are aware of LoA and even some of their blocks, but ultimately don’t know what to do with it and nothing seems to be working
c) Heartbroken / want to get back with an ex / turned around an fwb or situationship scenario
d) are coachable and READY to work on themselves and their patterns

Yes, this work is always better if it’s in depth and long-term because like an onion, we have multiple layers of beliefs in our subconscious that are accessed one by one. But on this session there will be absolutely no pressure to upgrade or work with me long term.

Like I said, I am a professional coach with a number of one on one paid clients, but I’m only doing this because I felt the need to support even more people through this journey as I am very passionate about this work.

And this is free because Reddit is a support based community and I don’t feel aligned to charge for the sessions I’m offering to this community.

But I am a professional and this does take a lot of my time and effort, which is why I am only offering single sessions to 10 people.

Hopefully this doesn’t break any community guidelines ☺️

I want to say this carefully, because I genuinely do love Reddit for what it is.

The fact that strangers come together, share their stories, try to help each other through something as vulnerable as love… that’s actually beautiful. There’s real comfort in not feeling alone in this.

And at the same time… I’ve been feeling a growing frustration reading through a lot of these posts.

Not because people are wrong.

But because I can see how this can quietly mess with your head when you’re already in a fragile place.

When you’re trying to manifest a specific person, you’re usually not calm and detached. You’re overthinking, analysing, hoping, doubting… sometimes all in the same hour.

And then you come here and read:

- “Persist no matter what.”

- “Let go.”

- “Ignore the 3D.”

- “Circumstances don’t matter.”

- “Focus only on self-concept.”

- “Stop caring and they’ll come back.”

- “Work through your limiting beliefs and blocks”

Individually, sure, much of this has truth.

But all together imo? It becomes noise.

And when you’re already spiraling, noise doesn’t guide you. It overwhelms you.

I know this because I’ve been that person… watching YouTube videos endlessly, saving posts, trying different things every few days, and then wondering why nothing was working.

And not just for a short phase.. I was in that cycle for years. Trying to make things work, hoping I’d crack the code, getting small, temporary shifts here and there… just enough to make me think things are working but nothing that definitively lasted. Because even though I knew all the theory of deep work, I wasn’t really going into it coz I just didn’t know how.  So I was doing things, yes, but mostly still hoping something would click on its own.

Here’s what I wish someone had told me back then…

Manifesting a specific person is not just about doing “manifestation” correctly.

It’s about you.

Your patterns.

Your emotional triggers.

Your subconscious beliefs (about being chosen, loved, prioritised and more)

The stories you fall back into the moment something goes “wrong.”

And no random comment (no matter how well meaning) can fully see that for you.

Also, and this might be uncomfortable to hear…

A lot of people giving advice here are still in the middle of their own confusion.

Again, not wrong. Not invalid.

But if someone is still anxious, still checking, still doubting… their advice is naturally coming from that state.

Which means you’re often taking direction from people who are in the middle of the same storm as you.

And that’s where things start going in circles.

Community has immense value. Feeling understood is gold.

But if you’ve been stuck for a while, trying everything, feeling like nothing is really shifting internally…

At some point, you have to be honest with yourself…

Is this helping me grow and actually create what I want, or just helping me cope with the day to day?

And I’ll add one more thing, because I see this a lot here…

The frustration around coaching.

Yes, there are people out there who definitely shouldn’t be coaching. That’s real. 100%.

But when someone has a bad experience and then decides “all coaching is useless,” it usually comes from the same place of trial and error exhaustion that’s happening here.

The problem isn’t getting help.

The problem is getting the wrong help… or trying to shortcut deep work with surface-level fixes.

Because real change in this area is not quick hacks. And the problem with the idea of manifestation is that it sells a magical, instantaneous outcome. (Possible in theory, not always practical in the real world).

It’s understanding yourself at a level where you’re not constantly shaken by every little thing your specific person does or doesn’t do.

So yeah… this is coming from a mix of appreciation and frustration.

I just don’t think you need to keep piecing together random advice while feeling worse inside.

There has got to be a more grounded, clear way to approach this.

And if you’ve been in this loop for a while, you probably already feel that too.

I’m curious to hear from you too though…

Have you ever felt like this? Or has this kind of advice collection actually helped you create that relationship with SP in a real, lasting way?