u/CreativeExtension270

Warning I’m not to good at writing so bear with me. My name is Joey and i’m a F(18). I needed some other opinions because according to my dad and her I’m the asshole. To give some context my dad started dating her right after my mom left the picture and my grandma who was like a mom passed away. He didn’t even wait till the divorce was final to get into this relationship. My mom is a drug addict so we never had a stable relationship but her leaving still had a huge effect on me. At this time we were moving out of my childhood home into a new house as well. So obviously a lot going on. I’ve tried for a while to accept all of this and be happy for my dad but after he decided to move me and my brother into her home It has been rocky to say the least. I am F(18) and my brother is M(10). She also has three kids who I won’t name F(21), F(19), and M(16). This move was a lot on me considering I was going into my first semester of college and had to pack for moving out as well. Ever since I have got back home for longer than expected I decided to take the semester off(didn’t like the school). His girlfriend threw a wine glass at my feet and continued to step over many boundaries I made clear. She blames me for all of the things her kids are doing or even my dad. She also has an obvious drinking problem to put me and my brother in a situation like this again is beyond me. (I’m getting very side tracked). Let’s get to mother’s day I decided I wasn’t going to say it to her. I only say mother’s day to people that were like a mother to me and maybe my logic is messed up but I want it to mean something. My dad was obviously mad and yelled at me so I just went to bed for the night (at 5pm). Here we are to today when my dad again said to say it to her. I obviously said no. Then she confronted me and said it was wrong for me not to say it. Let me know if i’m the asshole PLEASE.
Side note- tensions have been high since I decided I’m moving out of this toxic household.

Warning I’m not to good at writing so bear with me. My name is Joey and i’m a F(18). I needed some other opinions because according to my dad and her I’m the asshole. To give some context my dad started dating her right after my mom left the picture and my grandma who was like a mom passed away. He didn’t even wait till the divorce was final to get into this relationship. My mom is a drug addict so we never had a stable relationship but her leaving still had a huge effect on me. At this time we were moving out of my childhood home into a new house as well. So obviously a lot going on. I’ve tried for a while to accept all of this and be happy for my dad but after he decided to move me and my brother into her home It has been rocky to say the least. I am F(18) and my brother is M(10). She also has three kids who I won’t name F(21), F(19), and M(16). This move was a lot on me considering I was going into my first semester of college and had to pack for moving out as well. Ever since I have got back home for longer than expected I decided to take the semester off(didn’t like the school). His girlfriend threw a wine glass at my feet and continued to step over many boundaries I made clear. She blames me for all of the things her kids are doing or even my dad. She also has an obvious drinking problem to put me and my brother in a situation like this again is beyond me. (I’m getting very side tracked). Let’s get to mother’s day I decided I wasn’t going to say it to her. I only say mother’s day to people that were like a mother to me and maybe my logic is messed up but I want it to mean something. My dad was obviously mad and yelled at me so I just went to bed for the night (at 5pm). Here we are to today when my dad again said to say it to her. I obviously said no. Then she confronted me and said it was wrong for me not to say it. Let me know if i’m the asshole PLEASE.
Side note- tensions have been high since I decided I’m moving out of this toxic household.