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Noong Wednesday nasa labas kami ng bahay kasi Brownout dito sa Cavite, napag-usapan namin yung pagbubuntis ng aso ko dahil biglaan yung pagbubuntis niya. Yung nanay ko puro reklamo ng reklamo na siya daw nagpapakain, siya daw bumibili ng pagkain, na hanggang una lang daw "kami", siya daw ang naglilinis palagi, sa una lang daw kumpleto ang mga gamit ng aso pero sa bandang gitna at huli hindi na daw mapanindigan. Alam ko namang tatay ko pinariringgan ng nanay ko pero sa akin niya inaatake tapos itong tatay ko manhid lang. Which is masakit bilang anak kasi ako alam ko yung ginagawa ko pero sakin yung pag atake, hindi yung pagtatanggol. Student lang ako at hindi ko kayang i-provide lahat ng kailangan ng aso ko, ang kaya ko lang gawin ay services na paglilinis at pag-aalaga. Pero ngayong April na may part-time work na ako, inangkin ko na talaga halos lahat ng needs ng aso ko ngayon. Hindi na ako aasa sa iba. Masakit kasi na makarinig ka sa nanay mo ng reklamo tapos yung tatay mo manhid lang at nagbibingi bingihan. Example lang naman tong situation namin sa dog namin para idescribe yung relationship ng parents ko at kung paano nila ako tratuhin dito sa bahay. Para akong nasa dalawang batong naguumpugan palagi. Naiipit palagi tapos parang kasalanan ko pa kung bakit naiipit ako. Tapos magsisisihan sila.

Going back sa aso ko, kahapon dapat ipapa-ultrasound ko na dapat tong aso ko. Dinelay-delay niya kasi akala niya siya ang gagastos sa vet. Nung nalaman niya na hindi siya ang gagastos at ako ang gagastos, biglang sabi niya sasamahan niya daw ako ngayong hapon. Pero kapag mga pampapayat niya na pills kahit ₱4k pa yan na gagastusin niya nakakabili siya agad. Kapag accessories sa sasakyan nakakabili siya agad kahit magkano pa yan. Hindi ko rin masisisi yung pagrereklamo ng nanay ko eh kasi kapag sa bahay hindi gumagastos tong tatay ko kahit bill ng kuryente or tubig KAHIT GROCERIES AT KAHIT SA GASTOS SA LABAS. Either ako lang ang gumagastos or ang nanay ko. Alam niyo ginagastos ng tatay ko lang? Pampapayat niya or para sa sasakyan niya.

Been using flashcards for three years now. It really helped me excel during my first years. It helped me memorize all the terms that I needed for my exams. But when I reached my 2nd term of 2nd year, I find it too time consuming to create flashcards and too little time to actually answer my flashcards. Also another downside is the tendency to solely memorize the keywords from the definition and the appearance of the card from repeating it endlessly. It felt shallow whenever I study with flashcards because I am only studying and memorizing the facts and definitions. I am not deeply understanding the concept and application. This is important because I am studying heavy psychology concepts and our questions are situational and more on case studies. I have also been feeling so shitty because I prepare so much but I do not excel. But my classmates who do not prepare that much, they excel. Something's wrong with me.

I have tried AI to solve my problems when it comes to creating flashcards too, but I cannot rely with AI because its information is not accurate and the formatting it so shitty.

I came across with Tom Watchman from YouTube and he discussed about Read and Recall method. It talked about reading your lecture modules and at the same time recalling the information on the spot. No procrastinating. No creating of study materials. Just do the active recall process right away. No BS. I am thinking to switch my study strategy to this one instead of flashcards.

AYOKO NA MAG FLASH CARDS. MAPA-ANKI PA YAN, GIZMO, QUIZLET, TRADITIONAL FLASHCARDS.

Hello, I am Denise [25F], Psychology student, ayoko na mag flashcards. Sa una lang pala effective 😭 bakit kung sino pa yung hindi nage-effort gumawa ng reviewers or gumawa ng flashcards at magmemorize ng flashcards sila pa yung highest sa exams. Ako tong effort na effort mag memorize ng flashcards every class tapos ako pa tong average lang at hindi nage-excel. Okay lang naman na pasado ako pero kasi yung effort and time ko gumawa ng decks at ng flashcards tapos yung time and effort ko mag memorize everyday parang balewala. Sadyang mahina lang ba ako? O mali lang ako ng study habits and study techniques? Wala kasi akong tiwala sa sarili ko or kahit sa utak ko na matatandaan ko yung inaaral ko. Tapos feeling ko nagsasayang lang ako ng energy and time kapag nirerewrite ko lang yung notes ko. HINDI KO NA TALAGA ALAM.

Last April kasi, nag midterm exams kami. SOBRANG EFFORT AKO SA ANATOMY AND PHYSIOLOGY KO. Muscles kasi yung topic namin tapos may origin and insertion pa na aaralin in a span of two weeks. Yung pressure grabe naramdaman ko kasi yung magulang ko Physical Therapist. So tinuruan ako ng dad ko. Gumawa ako ng flashcards sa Anki tapos categorize ko pa to high-yield, medium-yield, low-yield lahat tapos minemorize ko lahat yang flashcards ko araw araw. Sinimulan ko sa high-yield to low-yield. Pati origin and insertion minemorize ko kasi nasa flashcards ko yan. Tapos ito araw ko lang nalaman bagsak pa rin ako. Grabe, tapos narealize ko wala akong matandaan kapag tinatanong ako. Di ko alam kung bakit. Napapansin ko bakit yung mga hindi nageeffort sa reviewers and flashcards mas nage-excel sila. Bakit ako na todo effort, nago-organize, bakit bagsak. Masyado ko bang kinokontrol yung sarili ko na wala akong tiwala sa skills ko.

Wala, sobrang na burnout lang ako ngayon na to the point na ayoko na gumawa kasi parang walang pinupuntahan yung effort ko. Kasi matagal ko ng napapansin at binibigyan ng chance tong sarili ko.

Hello! I am Denise [25F], I am a first time soon FurLola. Nabuntis yung bebi ko ng wala akong kamalay-malay huhu hindi ko alam kung April 1 ba yun (sana na April Fools lang ako no?) pero ayun nga hindi ko siya nabilang. Tapos hindi namin siya mapa-check up kasi ultrasound lang naman daw gagawin sabi ng father ko and ₱1000 na agad yun.

So ang ginagawa ko now ay pinapakain ko siya ng wet food na pang puppy sa morning with Pet Milk. Tapos Puppy Dog Food with Pet Milk sa gabi then Papi OB na Vitamins.

Sabi daw nila, wag daw pakainin masyado or sobra yung mommy baka daw masyadong lumaki yung mga baby niya at mahirapan sa labor niya. Tama po ba yun?

Pwede po ba makahingi ng tips or advice mula sa inyo for proper care during pregnancy niya, anong gagawin during labor, and after care? Paano rin ba mga gagawin sa mga baby niya? Ipapacheck up na ba agad sa vet after niya manganak? Kinakabahan ako hindi ko kasi alam gagawin ko 😭

Tips and pieces of advice are greatly appreciated po!

Edit: yung father ko ang ayaw ipacheck yung aso ko HUHU pero gusto ko na talaga siya ipacheck para malaman ko kung anong kalagayan ng babies niya.

What i mean is your routine from attending lectures to creation of anki flashcards to actually answering your flashcards. I tried creating questions and answers (flashcards) while on lecture. Guess what? Didn't work. I tried creating questions only while on lecture and saved it for later "active recall" or after class "review". Guess what happened? I created vague and repetitive questions. Could anyone please share their anki routine so I could try it too?

After many years of using tretinoin, i am finally giving up. Ang toxic na kasi ng relationship namin ni tret. Minsan ang ganda na ng skin ko and then nag eenjoy na ako tapos biglang boogsh hindi na naman mapigilan ang pagtubo ng acne ko at ang lalaki pa! Ewan ko na kung anong gagawin ko sa acne ko. I have this feeling na "band aid" solution na lang tong tretinoin or retinol. Parang hindi naman niya nate-treat yung root cause ng problem ng skin ko.

I tried just using cetaphil lotion or moisturizer, cetaphil gentle cleanser, and sunscreen in the morning. And grabe yung acne ko sa jawline ko and cheeks. Kahit naman naka tretinoin ako malala pa rin acne ko sa jawline and cheeks tho! Di ko na lang talaga alam yung default na dapat gagawin. Pabayaan ko na lang kaya? Like no moisturizer, just the cetaphil gentle cleanser, and sunscreen? Baka kasi yung moisturizer ay too heavy? I don't know. Can someone please help me create a very simple, tretinoin free, and holistic skincare routine?

Happy summer everyone! 🌻☀️

Hi! I am Teacher Denise [25F], I am a professional violinist for more than a decade now. I have a studio in Cavite and Laguna (Areza Music Studio). Dito sa Cavite, I have violin students only. While in Los Baños Laguna, my tita have piano students. But now, I mainly work in MZK Studio as a Violin Teacher.

I started playing violin since when I was 8 years old. My family is really musically inclined especially my lolo (my father's side). I was trained by Ms. Abegail Peralta from UPLB for I think 5 years, then we stopped at Volume 5 of Suzuki and Sevcik. I attended 13 recitals (13 years) of Areza Music Studio conducted by Prof. Godofredo Areza (my lolo). Since the pandemic started, and my lolo passed away, my tita and I decided to continue my lolo's music legacy through teaching what we know about music (piano and violin). This year is the 57th year of Areza Music Studio, and I want to continue it through sharing my knowledge in music and inspiring students through music.

Joining my violin lessons is greatly appreciated. Again, I entertain students who have great passion to learn music and willing to endure the obstacles as a musician. 🎶