u/Crushask

But she will also bully me and use anything I share against me.

It’s a cognitive dissonance at times. It’s comfort but it’s an unsafe person.

I seem to kinda like when men act controlling telling me what to do or wear and eat. It’s ridiculous. I was watching a show and the character is controlling to his GF (yes he ends up being abusive), shocker I know, and I was like feeling like “omg my strong hero” watching him being all possessive and passionate controlling.

It’s crazy.

Ok so at this job one coworker is the tallest guy between the two (I’m a tall girl, so it’s huge if a guy is towering over me, it’s not the norm), and then he flirts low-key and people have made comments about us but it’s not comparing to the comments that are made since the second tall guy came to the job and male coworkers make jokes about me and him should date.

I’m guessing male coworkers can tell he likes me because they’re all men. They can read each other. And I cannot. So I’m confused as to why honestly both gives vibes they like me but men only make a lot of jokes about me and the second guy?

I’m wondering does the first guy like me?