Is my husband looking for a man behind my back?
My husband has not been shy about his kink for cock. He has always wanted to suck a real one. He swears it's just a kink and the thought of being with a man turns him off. He says he isn't attracted to men it's just a cock obsession. He loves pussy too much to be gay. He knew my stance even before we married. I will peg him, we can role play and talk about stuff but I don't consider it any different if he liked men the same as he likes women because we are in a monogamous relationship. I don't want outsiders involved. I'm sure he sees women he is attracted to but that doesn't mean he has to experience them. I'm sure he sees woman that have physical traits that he has attracted to but I do not have. That doesn't mean he runs out to be with them. So to me, even if he sees men he is attracted to, because we are in a monogamous relationship and that takes priority, he can acknowledge that without exploring it. So I don't care what he is attracted to, but I don't want him going behind my back to hook up with anybody male or female. He tells me he has gone his whole life without experiencing it and he doesn't need it. It would be different if he outright told me he was bi and we had to come to some sort of an agreement if we are going to be together but when I question him he swears that thought makes him sick and doesn't want a man. Lately I'm starting to feel like he is propositioning his friends who are not bi that I know of. Please tell me if you think this could possibly be normal behavior and he just has a weird sense of humor or if this is a big deal. He will regularly, maybe once every 6 or 8 weeks, send his friends pictures of himself naked somewhere. They usually just show his ass. They are pictures I have taken of him when we are together at different places. I take them for myself and for him, not for him to share. He does not have this from me. He thinks it is hilarious. His friends on the other side do not like it. They have all told him they don't want to see it. He is such a fun loving guy and jokes all the time and he is a good friend so I feel like they try to overlook it and just not pay it much attention. I asked him why he sends them to his friends when he knows they don't like it and he says that's exactly why he does it. He says he thinks it is hilarious because it makes them mad and they don't like it and they all get so grossed out and have big reactions. It is seriously starting to make me uncomfortable. The other day he came across a reel that said, "I don't care how many men you have slept with, you're still my bro." He thought this was so funny and he literally sent it to every man he is friends with. Even guys he has not seen in a while and just occasionally contacts. None of these men seem bi or interested at all! They either ignore him or they tell him to stop or it's not funny. They always say it in a joking way because the entire matter is so uncomfortable. After he sent that to so many men I am starting to feel like he is literally propositioning the man around him and looking for somebody who will bite. Put this just be his weird sense of humor and guys being jerks to each other? Or is there more to this?