I used to be a DAR. For the last 3 years I have worked for a partner out of a DDC. The bad choices have continued since I was laid off. Wtf is BBY doing? Chasing Amazon and Lowe's, laying off hundreds of field leaders, losing hundreds of millions in stock value. Company is hemorrhaging money and good people. Morale is in the tank.
I 42M have been married to my wife 42F for 10 years, and was with my wife for 4 years before we got married. 14 years. We have kids.
She consistently buys food specifically for me that I have never once said I liked or bought myself. She will sometimes go pick up dinner when I'm at work and will order me things that I would never order.
And this isnt health related. She will get me caramel brownie ice cream or some shit when she knows I don't really eat caramel, or brownies, or ice cream.
She will get me raspberry smoothies when she knows I don't like raspberries.
I've told her 100 times what kind of chips I like, the thin cantina tostitos, but she will buy the little round ones or the scoops.
Does she fucking hate me? She always says she doesn't know what I like, when it's been visually and verbally communicated for 14 fucking years lol
I'd appreciate some insight so I can stop hurting her feelings by not eating shit she buys me.
Edit: she does not eat the food she buys me. It isn't things she likes either.
Edit2: lots of people in here weirdly assuming I do not also go to the store. Married couple often share jobs. Sometimes we go together too. Crazy, I know. I'm specifically talking about when SHE goes ALONE. I didn't know I'd summon the accusatory misandry brigade.
Edit3: thanks for the advice those who read. Perimenopause and possible ADHD seem to be good points to bring up for her next dr visit. And to clarify, we have a happy marriage, I'm just a caveman husband who is nitpicking. Doesn't always have to be doomscrolling here.