(18F) (17M) need advice now!in this relationship for 3 years.
Me and my boyfriend have been together since we were 14 and 15. We grew up together and I’ve met his family. Recently starting this year we’ve been arguing like crazy. Almost as if he has to be right all the time. For starters, I worked at this smoothie place and quit 3 days later, and didn’t want to go order from there since I recently quit there. We were talking about that in the way to chic fil a, and he just started crashing out on me. Pulling my shirt and screaming in my face, we get to the parking lot and he parks gets in the backseat and says he’s not driving anymore, so I take over and bring him home. When I brought him I asked him to bring me something from inside and he said ok. I wait maybe 5 minutes and he still didn’t bring it to me, so I text him and he tells me to go inside. All of a sudden he’s calm after hitting his pen. He starts hugging me and telling me to stay at his house. Which I stupidly did. That day went fine but was the first time he’s ever scared like that. Another thing we argue about small things and HE ALWAYS! Has to be right. Even if I fact check him he will correct me. It’s aggravating I actually can’t. He literally hung up on my face after arguing about how I said working out can help people GAIN WEIGHT! AND BE ARGUES WITH ME EVEN AFTER I LOOK IT UP. And hangs up…. We talked the next day like nothing happened, as if he didn’t call me stupid and retard$ed. So earlier I get home from work. I work in the city and don’t get off till 4 o clock. When evb gets out of work. I’m otw home it’s raining bad, there’s traffic and my SOS is on so no data. I get home and receive messages I didn’t respond to any since my dog got out her cage and I had to clean up piss. 5 minutes after cleaning up the piss, he calls me. “Where you been at ??” I said “home???” He said “mmm you’re lying” I said don’t call my phone on this bs like as if I don’t work 30 mins away and get stuck in traffic and have 2 dogs to take care of. He hangs up in my face after 5 seconds of silence. I text him he “apologies” thru text claiming I have a tendency of lying in the past BEFORE WE WERE EVEB TG AND I WAS LIKE 14. So I call him to talk about it, he acts like he isn’t bothered, doesn’t care, while I was stressing over it and claimed he never said I was lying. I told him I would call him back later. Guys idk what to do I’m stressed he is just adding on to the stress.