u/Cxntycouture

I lost my daughter Nov 30th 2025 at 33 weeks, I had an easy pregnancy up until 20 weeks I could not keep anything down. At. All.

I was puking every 10 minutes I was crying and begging to god to have mercy and I’ve never been religious but I told myself there would be a god if this would stop.

I was hospitalized the first time Nov (7th) and I was still puking so much, I was pale so skinny, my heart beat was over 155 bpm & my daughters was over 170 bpm.

Both looking bad, I was so weak I couldn’t stand and baby was measuring behind by a week increasing my anxiety something was really wrong.

I even had a nurse come In and say she was puking blood during her pregnancy to but her baby took everything out of her and was a big baby.

Like wtf?? Some people should stfu!

I went home on the 19th still super super weak vomiting did not get better I could barely walk but all the nurses had been pretty rude & when I’d try and shower to ease the pain of puking they would walk in whenever they wanted & I felt so violated.

Super mean girl energy by the nurses and I just was so uncomfortable.

Nov 29th I ended up back in the hospital because I started puking black specks and brown specks again.

When I got there they hooked me up to the heart rate monitor for my daughter and it was steady above 185 I said I was scared & they said once they get me feeling better baby will feel better in my heart I knew something was wrong.

I ended up getting diarrhea and leaking clear liquid they did a cervical check and said I was 3 cm dilated if I make it to 4 they’ll do an emergency c section.

They transfer me back into the same room I was in before to monitor it’s getting late now and I remember nothing much except waking up & being told her heart had stopped.

They did an ultrasound to be sure and it felt awful when the tech said “ see that’s the heart not beating”

My water broke 30 minutes later and I birthed my daughter sleeping.

I was then transferred to another hospital to the icu where I found out I have heart inflammation

Fast forward to now 10 weeks 4 days & i believe I have HG again… I have so much trauma from what happened, I feel like if i hadn’t waited so long to get help or if I would’ve ignored the nurses it would be different.