Need answers & advice USA Trying to be prepared

I brought my mom home with me to live 3 years ago. I have a brother that hasn't been to see her 10 times & never calls. We do not talk & he's truly a POS!
She's 86 years old and in good health but I still have to shower her, wash her hair, wash her clothes, etc. I don't get paid & was wondering if I will be allowed to sue her estate for 24/7 care when she passes.
She has a house I'm guessing $300,000-$400,000 that is sitting empty. Just trying how to be ready as he is over all her accounts ( let me add I'm 64 years old & disabled)

Him & her house are in Tn
Her & myself are in Ms. home paid off

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u/Dadselfer — 15 hours ago

15-20 years old

I purchased this bag many years ago 🫣 I have MANY bags I’ve never carried and this is one of them 🤗 I got her out & thought what a waste not to show off 🥹 I HATE HER 😫 I can’t imagine why they didn’t put feet on her and she is SO STIFF & BULKY 🫣 Thoughts 💭

u/Dadselfer — 2 months ago