u/DaisyDream11

Deze zondag is het moederdag (voor de parkingbewoners 😅). Nu had mijn moeder gevraagd of ik een verrassingsdagje voor haar kon plannen.

Als de Belgische weergoden ons goed gezind zijn dacht ik te gaan picknicken en wandelen in het Nachtegalenpark.

- Weet iemand of hier in de buurt een plaats is waar ze picknicks verkopen of zal ik er zelf eentje moeten samenstellen?

- Mijn Vader kan niet zitten op de grond, dus zijn ze ergens in het park picknick tafels?

Bij slecht weer dacht ik naar chocolate nation te gaan en daarna naar het bijhorende restaurant Octave. Helaas blijkt dit gesloten te zijn op zondag.

- Heeft iemand leuke suggesties voor in de buurt. We zouden met 6 volwassenen zijn en 1 baby. Dus het zou handig zijn dat er genoeg plaats is voor de buggy te kunnen zetten.

Hello. Me and my bf want our son (4 months) to be baptized. But we have been postponing it because we don't know who to invite because my bf family all hate each other.

So the plan is to have the baptism in a church and after that we will have some pie and coffee in my parents garden. From my side of the family there will be about 13 guest.

Meet the family

His mom and dad are divorced for about 9 years but the mother is still bitter about it and will make comments about how he is a asshole etc. She can be very loud when she complains and makes a lot of drama.

Our relationship with his mother

We see her kinda regularly but me and her have had multiple falling outs. Because she complains a lot about everything including me, which I don't tolerate very well. But she has been a lot nicer since I have given her a grandson.

Our relationship with his father:

I only met his father after 10 years of our relationship when our son was born. His father seemed like a nice man. My bf sees his father rarely because (in my opinion) they both don't make a lot of effort to meet each other.

His brother:

His brother is the godfather of our child and my bf finds it very important that he and his wife come. His brother does not want to see his father. His father was not invented to his wedding.

His brother and sister are also not in contact since they had a physical fight about 6 years ago. She was also not invited to his wedding and he is not invented for her wedding.

Our relationship with his brother

This relationship has caused the least amount of drama in the last year's. We see him regularly

Our relationship with his sister

We were no contact for a couple of years because of some problems but recently we have made it up.

We have thought of the following options:

1. Invite everyone

The chance of drama at the party will be high and there is a big chance his brother (the godfather) will not be coming.

Someone suggested I should invite everyone but keep it a secret that we invited everyone. But I think it is a bad idea that will cause drama for sure.

2. Invite only my family and not his family

3. Only invite his brother and maybe his mother.

So we really don't know what to do to make the least amount of drama and the least amount of people mad. We also want to get married in the future but we have the same problem for the wedding guest list.