u/DamageHuge581

I(19, M) have a best friend who I've known since elementary school. She(19F) is angry because I won't spend time with her. For some context, my father has a medical condition that I won't disclose here because he isn't comfortable discussing it with people. On April 25, my father was rushed to the hospital for that condition. So I stayed there for him(Mom was also there, and my younger sister too). On April 26th, I came back to my dorm(which my best friend share). She was throwing a temper tantrum on how I don't spend much time with her and how she feels abandoned(she has no mental disorders for her to be acting this way). I tried to calm her down and explain but she wouldn't listen. Then we had a fight which resulted in me leaving her in the dorm and back to my family which was still in the hospital. After that, in the next following days, she ghosted me on Messenger(I use Android) and the times when she was active, she just marked read my messages (Side note: my messages were apologies). I feel bad.

TL;DR: My best friend is mad she won't spend time with her and ghosts me.

I(19, M) have a best friend who I've known since elementary school. She(19F) is angry because I won't spend time with her. For some context, my father has a medical condition that I won't disclose here because he isn't comfortable discussing it with people. On April 25, my father was rushed to the hospital for that condition. So I stayed there for him(Mom was also there, and my younger sister too). On April 26th, I came back to my dorm(which my best friend share). She was throwing a temper tantrum on how I don't spend much time with her and how she feels abandoned(she has no mental disorders for her to be acting this way). I tried to calm her down and explain but she wouldn't listen. Then we had a fight which resulted in me leaving her in the dorm and back to my family which was still in the hospital. After that, in the next following days, she ghosted me on Messenger(I use Android) and the times when she was active, she just marked read my messages (Side note: my messages were apologies). I feel bad. Am I the asshole?

TL;DR: My best friend is mad she won't spend time with her and ghosts me. EDIT: Due to comments saying she might be in love with me, let me provide even more further context. When she was in 9th grade, she had a relationship with another guy at that time, yet she STILL pursued me romantically. Also in 10th grade, she stalked my other friend(pseudonym Jack bcuz he wants to stay anonymous) to his house. According to Jack, she tore off a piece of his house fence out of anger. Her reasoning when I asked her? Vague phrases and trying to dodge the question. I might come off as a little weaboo here but, (according to my little sister and this is verbatim), "She might be a yandere." Not my words, but little sister's.