u/Damajarrana

# What are the chances that we will be able to stay together during residency? I heard that the go to strategy is to figure out where my husband is matching in December of the match, which is when the military match happens. I would then adjust my rank list accordingly. Is there any anecdotal success with this strategy? Are we just doomed for a long distance relationship at some point?

Male in 20s. I finally understand what it means to have a friend that happens to be the opposite gender. Admittedly, they gotta not be attractive. But still… stay away from that shit. Brings you nothing but problems.