My manager dislikes me
My manager dislikes me. It’s not even an I think anymore it’s real, I’m in school and I have another job at a local ice cream shop too that I’ve worked at for three years. My manager will not respond to my messages, when I have to find something out i usually find out from my co worker who is a key holder. I should not be receiving information from my coworker when I come to you for it. Nor should I be having to get a side eye from you when I walk in on a day off due to nothing I had control over.
My co worker has informed me that the store was closed multiple times when I haven’t heard a peep from my coworker, has informed me that I’m not able to punch in early, and many things that my manager should be informing me. And on top of that she has blatantly ignored my messages. If I were to show you my texts with her it would my walls of my text and one or two replies from her every five texts. Yes I may message a lot but I ask questions that I want to know from her and this is my first job that is for like an actual corporation.
My boss from the local ice cream shop shops at the dollar general, and had asked the assistant manager to talk really quick because I had requested off for a certain day (Thursdays) every week so I could work at the ice cream shop and train people there but repeatedly I had been scheduled over that day, my boss at the ice cream shop is also my friend mom so I’m alot more familiar with her. I at no point asked her to talk to my boss. She had asked me to give her number to my manager to talk to her and I didn’t think it was wrong so I sent that message(the message was blatantly ignored. No communication ever occurred between my two bosses) and so that’s why my boss asked to speak to the assistant manager, from what I was told about the conversation was she talked to the assistant manager about me requesting the days off and he claimed that I never did, which she knew was wrong because I did it infront of her, and I asked for her help to make sure I did it right and wrote politely the reason I needed it off and then said that they must have been scheduling over my request off, the assistant manager said it wasn’t even possible and my boss said well it must be if I was still being scheduled and then as far and I know the conversation ended there but they were both pretty upset and I suppose understandably so.
Fast forward to me coming into the store with my friend on a day off when my manager was working. I saw her and said hi, I in return for a dirty look and a very unpleasant “hey” in response so I quickly got my shopping done and I left. And then at a school event I got the story said above.
She already doesn’t care for me. She reiterates to a few people that I work slow and I need all my work checked and has called me “drama riddled” and said I plaid “childish games” when I went to a coworker for advice on what to do in a situation because my manager said a racist comment and was unpleasant to a costumer. I understand that may not be the best way to go about it but again it my first big corporation job and I was unsure if that was something to report.
She also sent me through flood water to pick up my coworker. The entire town was flooded and she made the decision to open the store. I suppose I’m asking if I should tough it out and such or quit and just work at the ice cream shop full time or find another place to work