u/Dangerous_Ad3110

Hello everyone,

I’m 26F recently moved to America with my husband 31M due to his work, and I’m on dependent visa. I don’t have any friends been looking for jobs and with today’s job market it’s been really hard and I haven’t gotten any responses from the companies I have applied. I do all the cooking and cleaning at the house as I have lot of time in my hand. So my husband’s job expects him to work all the time like even when he is home on the weekends and he also has friends here so he goes out with them when he gets some free time. I only go out for the groceries and nothing else. I’ve been feeling really lonely cause I used to be out going and do everything on my own back in my home country, now I don’t know what I should do. And I feel guilty asking anything from my husband cause he is always so stressed about his work. I do send him places I wish we could visit but he just doesn’t have the time and when he does he prefers to rest or go out with his friends and then he asks me if I’m mad that he is going out with his friend the problem is I do get mad cause they usually go to the places I send him but I don’t want him to not go out because I can’t go out he then says when you get job start making friend you go out with then also but he doesn’t understand that I want to spend time with him.
And we haven’t been intimate for like a month now.

So can you guys please help me with what I should ask, say or do something to help with this situation?

I hope this post makes any sense, I’m just writing down everything I’m feeling right now.