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Butch Friday Chat 7/3

Hello hello,

That was a close one! I'm up in New England visiting family and all you lovely people crossed my mind, realized I never put a BFR out!

How is everyone in the butchverse doing?

Went in a public pool with my shirt off for the first time since top today. Cherry on top, no one batted an eye. Wishing all of my top surgeried butches a topless summer!

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u/DapperBoiCole — 2 days ago

Butch Friday Chat 6/19/25: Juneteenth Edition (actually on a Friday this time!)

Hello butchverse!

First of all, wishing the Black butches and studs in the community a happy and restful Juneteenth.

What is going on for everyone this week? Hoping everyone is enjoying Pride and has had some time to be outside and enjoy some nice weather.

Took a walk through a park recently and it felt like a good reset, needed the Vitamin D.

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u/DapperBoiCole — 17 days ago

Butch Friday Chat: Juneteenth Edition (actually on Friday this time!) 6/19/25

Hello butchverse!

First of all, wishing the Black butches and studs in the community a happy and restful Juneteenth.

What is going on for everyone this week? Hoping everyone is enjoying Pride and has had some time to be outside and enjoy some nice weather.

Took a walk through a park recently and it felt like a good reset, needed the Vitamin D.

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u/DapperBoiCole — 17 days ago
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6/13 Butch Friday (Saturday) Chat

Hey y'all you know what day it was!

Had a very busy Friday and I appreciate everyone's patience. But lets catch up! What were the ups and downs of this week? Anything you're looking forward to? Projects you're working on?

Surprise bonus question: What new skill did you learn recently?

For me, my work requires me to know/learn a lot of home ec/improvement skills. Learned how to properly tape a box for moving, hanging picture frames securely, and making tablecloth from saran wrap (which I didn't even know was possible).

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u/DapperBoiCole — 23 days ago

Lost Ring

I feel incredibly stupid typing this out, but I lost a ring around Diggs and N11th, maybe down by Roebling.

Its a ring a friend made out of sculpture wire. Unfortunately it's very sentimental to me and this is a massive longshot to get it back.

Since the ring is made of sculpture wire its very possible its bent out of shape, its fine it goes right back. I would be grateful if anyone has spotted it and could help get it back to me.

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u/DapperBoiCole — 29 days ago

Bringing back Butch Friday Chats

Hey y'all!

I hadn't been active on reddit for a while and I noticed there was a schism of sorts so I wanted to post about this here too.

During quarantine a user, an "elder butch" whose account is now gone (I think due to the same reason this sub exists but I cant be sure) started Butch Friday Chats and it really held our community down while everything was churning. I'd love to bring it back.

Putting out a feeler to see if its cool for me to repost the Butch Friday Chats here too so we can all have that space each week.

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u/DapperBoiCole — 1 month ago
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Butch Friday Chat 6/5/26

We're Baaaacckkkk!

It's Friday once again, let's debrief from the week. Grab your favorite beverage and lets take a moment to share with each other.

How is everyone holding up? Any wins you'd like to share, or fun things you're up to?

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u/DapperBoiCole — 1 month ago

Starting Butch Friday Chats up again

Hey y'all, I was thinking back to how SueDonym really held us down through quarantine with the BFC and wanted to put out a feeler to see if others wanted to bring it back?

Butch Friday Chat (BFC) was just a thread where people can chat with each other, talk about small wins or things going on in the week, share projects and things we're up to, educate each other, ask for advice on some things, etc.

I think it was a cool way to keep the community grounded and with some butches that could host in rotation, it feels like a pretty easy lift just to keep the convo going.

Is anyone else down for bringing BFC back?

Anyone interested in being a rotating BFC host?

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u/DapperBoiCole — 1 month ago