Disappearing messages on every social media platform (repost with more information)
This problem started like 6 or even more months ago. First it was on **Instagram and Messenger**. My messages for this person started to disappear in front of their eyes. They would get the notification but when they would open the chat messages would be gone. My messages would appear to send normally on my side, but she would not receive them. Then we moved to **Whatsapp.** There first few days were okay, but for some reason we went back to **Messenger.** On **Messenger** i sent an intimate picture and after that her account started to restrict my account. We stopped chatting on **messenger**, because my account would also get muted and restricted automatically. On **whatsapp** i got blocked automatically on her account after that picture.
Then we saw that on **tiktok** my account was also muted and the messages were disappearing.
We also tried **X/Twitter** and there the messages wouldn't disappear but her account was automatically reporting my account posts and some text also.
On Discord the messages would stay but her account would sometimes unfriend me automatically.
The really strange part is that this problem seems to be specific to me and her. She receives messages from other people normally, and I can receive messages from her normally. Other people can message her without these problems. I can also message other people normally.
This problem started while I was using Iphone 15 and she was using Samsung Galaxy (i dont remember which one but older version). Now she is using Iphone 11 and we tried chatting on **Imessages.** And some of the messages started to disappear in her eyes, few seconds after i text her.
I also bought new phone number and tried it on my old Iphone 11 and the imessages were still disappearing. So we use simple text messages but it is still annoying.
I’m wondering if there could be some kind of corrupted contact/account association, messaging identity issue, server-side restriction, spam/abuse detection issue, or something linking my account/number to her account in a way that causes my messages to be filtered or removed. I’m not saying that this is definitely what is happening; I just cannot figure out why the problem follows us across different apps and devices.
For iMessage in particular, I contacted Apple support and they informed me to contact on different day to get a call from senior support and i hope they will help somehow.
I would really appreciate only for imessages to work normally.