aitk for bitching against my roommate
i may or may not be a hygiene freak but i have made it extremely clear to my roommates that i like to keep my space as clean as possible. i don't personally climb into my bed while being dressed in outside clothes, unwashed hands and feet. and today i n my roommates were even having talks about how it upsets us when others climb into our beds without cleaning themselves first so i concluded that she must have clear understanding of boundaries n assumed she'd never violet mine.
In the evening we go out, she leaves for our room first, i stroll for half an hour longer outside, and then the moment i arrived in my room what I'm seeing is that she has very comfortably laid out her (previously worn) jeans on my BED, on my freshly changed bedsheet. and i started fuming so hard, internally. i said "abbey tune apne jeans mere bed pe kese rakh diya when you knewww" and then she began pleading guilty and n no. of sorries flew out of her mouth.
a few moments later when she brought it up again, i tried to brush it off as nothing n said "as long as you wash my sheet clean." It had in reality pissed me off so hard that i had discussed it w my mom, sis n friend before coming to bed n my third roommate who was only a witness to this, may or may not have eavesdropped, so she brought it up in front of that roommate again about smth like "are we horrible roommates to you," mind you i never said that 💀 i can be extremely mean, self centred idiot but I would never speak ill of anyone due to such juvenile isolated events. i might think poorly of them but may never say it out loud. altho i do feel so much off about that roommate rn bcoz i have a gut feeling she did it consciously bcoz there is noooooooo wayyyyyy. her n mine beds are placed at apropriate distances. i mean. I'm so hurt rn. why would she do it unprovoked. b itch.