I was a stalker throughout my adolescence. And I can truly regret that.

Just to set the scene: all of this happened when I was between 14 and 17 years old.

I am male, and the victim is male too. He is the same age.

It all took place in Brazil, in a town with a population of 50,000.

I’ll call myself Andrew and the victim Davi.

I did a lot of things, like breaking into his house (I knew about the key under the doormat) to take his belongings, hacking into his social media accounts, entering places uninvited, stalking him on the street, taking photos of him without permission, spreading rumors, and various other things.

I’ll confess what finally got me caught:

I remember that day; I was 16 years old and 1.73m tall.

I knew they had traveled to visit Davi’s grandmother—who was terribly ill—and wouldn't be back anytime soon.

I had seen them leaving via their security cameras (they used obvious passwords).

I decided to go to their house to grab a hoodie that smelled like Davi and get passwords from his computer.

I waited hours for my mom's Xanax to kick in, then went to Davi's house.

I was deep into rummaging through Davi's things—the house was pitch black, and I was riding a high of pure ecstasy and adrenaline—when I felt a punch to the head. I was instantly startled and dazed; I fell to the floor and saw Davi looking more furious than I had ever seen anyone in my life.

I realized there was no escape, and we got into a physical fight. He was taller, but I managed to dodge him and run for it. David's parents didn't have a fucking clue what was going on when a boy—who was a stranger to them until that moment—came running out of their house with Davi chasing him.

My adrenaline was peaking as I took off running down the street with Davi right behind me. I managed to shake D off and went home; I deleted the data I had on D from my computer and got rid of D's belongings.

That was until the police showed up at my door, along with D's parents, who were outraged by what had happened.

I tried to lie, claiming I’d been asleep at home, but David was wearing a wedding band (he was in a relationship), and it did quite a bit of damage to my face. Then my mother woke up.

And I ended up at the police station that day...

Feel free to ask me questions about what happened before or after.

The story is very long, so I’ll answer all questions.

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u/DaveeMontsserat — 1 day ago

AMA, I committed stalking in my teens. I regret that.

Please excuse the terrible writing, English is not my native language. And just to clarify, this story took place in Brazil.

I decided to start a new post to fill in the details, because the previous one was very incomplete.

I engaged in stalking behavior from the time I was 14 until I was 17. You can ask me literally anything; I'll answer it all.

Yes, the person was the same age as me, and we went to the same school (from middle school through high school).

Yes, I stalked him on the street and on social media, sent packages, showed up at places uninvited, intimidated him, damaged property (belonging to him and his family), blackmailed the victim, and did various other things.

Yes, I was found out on more than one occasion (and I even got into a physical fight with him; I deserved the beating).

One thing that made what I did much easier was my financial situation and the fact that I was living practically alone (my mother was basically living in another city to manage her business; I stayed in our hometown. She paid a woman to come in and clean, and had family members keep an eye on me, but obviously, that failed).

Feel free to ask me anything; I'll answer whatever you want to know.

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u/DaveeMontsserat — 1 day ago

AMA, eu cometi Stalking na minha adolescência. E me arrependo disso.

Decidi abrir um novo post pra completar informações, porque o outro ficou muito incompleto.

EU cometi stalking dos meus 14 até os 17 anos. Pode me perguntar literalmente qualquer coisa, vou responder tudo.

Sim, a pessoa tinha a mesma idade que eu, e estudávamos juntos na mesma escola (Do fundamental ao médio).

Sim, eu persegui na rua e em redes sociais, mandei incomendas, apareci em lugares sem ser convidado, intimidei, danifiquei materiais (Dele e da família), chantageie a vítima e várias outras coisas.

Sim, eu fui descoberto em mais de 1 situação (E inclusive briguei fisicamente com ele. Mereci apanhar).

Uma coisa que facilitou muito oque eu fiz foi o fato da condição financeira minha, e o fato de eu morar praticamente sozinho (Minha mãe praticamente morava em outra cidade para cuidar do empreendimento dela, eu continuei em nossa cidade natal, ela pagava uma mulher pra ficar limpando aqui e colocavam familiares pra vigiarem, mas obviamente fracassou né).

Pode me perguntar tudo, respondei qualquer coisa. Vou relatando a partir da pergunta de vocês.

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u/DaveeMontsserat — 1 day ago
▲ 3 r/AMABRASIL+1 crossposts

AMA, eu cometi Stalking na minha adolescência. E me arrependo disso.

Decidi abrir um novo post pra completar informações, porque o outro ficou muito incompleto.

Não quero incentivar ninguém a fazer isso, quero apenas desabafar e contar minha história

EU cometi stalking dos meus 14 até os 17 anos. Pode me perguntar literalmente qualquer coisa, vou responder tudo.

Sim, a pessoa tinha a mesma idade que eu, e estudávamos juntos na mesma escola (Do fundamental ao médio).

Sim, eu persegui na rua e em redes sociais, mandei incomendas, apareci em lugares sem ser convidado, intimidei, danifiquei materiais (Dele e da família), chantageie a vítima e várias outras coisas.

Sim, eu fui descoberto em mais de 1 situação (E inclusive briguei fisicamente com ele. Mereci apanhar).

Uma coisa que facilitou muito oque eu fiz foi o fato da condição financeira minha, e o fato de eu morar praticamente sozinho (Minha mãe praticamente morava em outra cidade para cuidar do empreendimento dela, eu continuei em nossa cidade natal, ela pagava uma mulher pra ficar limpando aqui e colocavam familiares pra vigiarem, mas obviamente fracassou né).

Pode me perguntar tudo, respondei qualquer coisa

Podem me perguntarem tudo, desde de como evitar um stalker e frustrar eles.

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u/DaveeMontsserat — 1 day ago

AMA, eu cometi Stalking na minha adolescência.

Eu cometi isso dos meus 14 pr 17 anos. Pode me perguntar pra qualquer coisa.

Sim, a pessoa tinha a mesma idade que eu.

Sou um M, e o alvo também era M

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u/DaveeMontsserat — 3 days ago
▲ 0 r/Delphox+1 crossposts

Could someone please generate a Delphox Shiny for me?

I've been looking for a shiny Delphox for a long time, but I can't find one, and people won't accept shiny Metagross in trade.

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u/DaveeMontsserat — 15 days ago