u/Davros_the_DalekFan

I literally just saw a young person put a heartfelt success story on here to try to be helpful and encouraging to those wtill yearning for it. And maybe to celebrate their success a bit after a long wait and difficult struggle.

But one bitter person writes

"Nobody Cares"

And the young person replied "Oh" and immediately .removed the post.

People should not be discouraged so quickly because of one negative comment.

I also hear about women who feel discouraged to post here just because they get negative comments from bitter men invalidating their experience.

Why give negative people so much power, when you get support for your posts from so many other people?.

JMO

Based on this sub it seems it's not just happening to me. It's not like a shadow ban where I see my comment but it never gets any response. My comment simply never shows up at all. I even unsubbed from a sub because I thought they were messing with me.

I have never amd will never have a girlfriend or any friends.

I am avoidant, schizoid, narcissistic, obsessive compulsive, and possibly a sociopath as well.

I have been irresponsible and lazy for my entire life, and the only thing that keeps me going is a cat I am stuck with .He is probably going to live longer than me, but I've got to hang on as long as I can for his sake. It would be better if I got rid of him, but I just can't do that to him .

I only made this,post because I wasn't allowed to reply to the 38 yo forever alone perspn who's vent is exactly true for me as well. So he is not the only one by any means.