u/Dazzling_Childhood22

looking for a like minded partner

Currently in the US (35F), planning to move back to India in the next 3–4 months mostly depending on when I land the right opportunity, as I’m actively interviewing right now.

Looking for a like-minded partner to build a calm, meaningful life together.

About the kind of person I’m looking for: • Age: 34–36

• Profession: Preferably in Tech

-prefer someone from Delhi NCR or US or any other city who is open to relocate to Delhi NCR

  • North Indian ( not as such any issue but just to avoid cultural disconnect and also since I want to settle in Delhi NCR ( I don't think anyone from south will settle there)

-Open to settling in Delhi NCR

never married as I am also never married

If you are in US, would love to chat and see how things goes so that we can just move back together. yes you heard ur right First preference is for someone who want to move back.

I value emotional maturity, strong morals, integrity, and someone who can make his own decisions confidently.

I’m someone who believes marriage should feel like companionship, not an arrangement based on rigid traditional roles.

In the initial phase, I’d prefer that we build our life and bond together independently, while still being responsible and caring toward both sets of parents. Family responsibilities matter to me, but so does creating our own space as partners.

Also, small request I genuinely appreciate thoughtful conversations over forced/cringe flirting in the very first chat. I believe good connections take time.

Lifestyle-wise, I want a peaceful and balanced life. I’m practical, career-oriented, and honestly looking forward to some of the comforts India offers — like having household help instead of turning life into endless chores after work.

Looks matter to me to the extent that there should be mutual attraction and compatibility. I consider myself above average looking, and I’d like to be with someone where we genuinely complement each other.

I don’t believe in marrying just for the sake of it I’d rather stay single than settle without compatibility.

About me: Fair, 61 kg, 5'4' independent, grounded, and clear about what I want from life and a relationship.

If you agree to this , please msg me and Will get back.

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u/Dazzling_Childhood22 — 5 days ago
▲ 3 r/sepsis+1 crossposts

My father had a stroke 5 months ago, and 2 months ago he developed sepsis. Since then, his alertness has been very low. He is still alert enough to open his eyes and follow basic commands, but not alert enough to safely eat by mouth. That is why we are feeding him through a Ryle tube, because we are always scared of aspiration.

Even during swallowing therapy, he keeps dozing off and is unable to stay properly alert, and for oral feeding he needs to be much more awake and attentive.

Right now, whenever we do physical therapy for him, he keeps getting fevers very frequently, along with sore throat symptoms, as if he catches viral infections easily. Low-grade fever happens very often, because of which he has been on antibiotics many times. But we also cannot keep giving repeated antibiotic courses because that can disturb his gut bacteria and cause other problems.

In this situation, what should be done according to you? If we stop physical therapy, his hands and legs may stop improving because he had recovered quite a lot after the stroke, although he still cannot sit by himself. But when we try to do PT at home, he does not cooperate much. My mother says that PT is causing more harm than benefit, so what should we do now?

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u/Dazzling_Childhood22 — 17 days ago

Hi , those who are waiting for slot and are not getting any? Whats your plan? Are you postponing all your life events like marriage , health, parents visit for the visa or do you have any other plan. The latest we are getting slots are for 2027.

Country- India

Visa-h1b

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u/Dazzling_Childhood22 — 24 days ago