u/Dbc_A17

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New ro sourdough...

I was gifted a 90 year old sourdough starter and I’ve been baking with it daily! Since I bake so often, I’ve been feeding it at a 1:5:5 or sometimes 1:10:10 ratio depending on how much starter I need.

I’m still struggling a bit with the bulk fermentation process though. My house and kitchen run pretty cold because it’s an older home with a few drafty spots. The last few days I’ve been leaving my dough on the counter overnight.

I had to throw away yesterday’s batch because it turned out extremely sticky, and I realized afterward that I had added way too much water to the recipe. Last night I made a new batch using 100g starter, 350g water, 490g bread flour, and 12g salt. After 3 stretch and folds, I left it on the counter overnight. This morning it had risen, and while the top was still slightly sticky, I was able to shape and round it. I’ve now placed it in the fridge to cold ferment.

A couple questions.

How long should I leave it in the fridge? It had already sat on my counter for almost 8 hours overnight.

How long should bulk fermentation actually take?

Also regarding my starter…

I use it at what I think is peak rise, but I still struggle to tell when it’s truly ready. Everyone says to look for a domed top, smell it, taste it, etc., but I still feel unsure. Every sourdough video starts with “sourdough doesn’t have to be hard,” but by the end of the video I somehow feel even more confused.

Here is a picture of my my starter.. fed lastnight around 830pm.. its now 805am

u/Dbc_A17 — 9 days ago

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I’m 6 months postpartum and I feel like my rage and anxiety are still getting the best of me. I’m starting to feel depression creeping in, and I had pretty severe postpartum depression with my first daughter, so that’s honestly scaring me a bit.

My son is such a joy and usually a very happy baby, but lately he’s been screaming a lot, really unhappy, and not sleeping well again. I feel completely drained. I also have a 3 year old I’m trying to care for at the same time, and some days it just feels like I’m barely keeping my head above water.

I feel like such a crappy mom some days because I have the TV on a lot for my daughter just so I can tend to my son. I don’t get dressed up, I don’t do my hair or makeup, and I just feel like a slob when my husband gets home. He always tells me I look beautiful, but I don’t feel it at all.

I feel really uncomfortable in my body right now. My jeans don’t fit, tight tops feel awful, and I basically live in leggings and oversized sweaters.

I just really miss feeling like myself and I’m wondering… when did you start feeling like you again postpartum? And does it actually get better?

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u/Dbc_A17 — 16 days ago

I recently switched my six month old from three naps to two. On three naps, we followed 2/2.5/2.5/2.5, with a 1.5 hour first nap and about an hour for the second and short catnap for third nap- 30 minutes max.

Since moving to two naps with wake windows of 2/3/3.5, all of his naps have dropped to around 30 minutes, and he’s started waking early in the morning again, often crying.

I made the switch because the third nap had become really difficult—he was taking about 20 minutes to fall asleep, and the early morning wakes had already started.

Now I’m unsure if I transitioned too quickly or if this is just a normal adjustment period. I’m tempted to go back to three naps, but it feels like he might be stuck in an overtired cycle, and I’m not sure how to fix it.

Should I adjust his wake windows, go back to three naps for now, or stick it out and give him time to settle?

It honestly feels like we’re back in the crap nap phase again 🫠

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u/Dbc_A17 — 23 days ago