Hey guys, I just bought a new car and the previous owner was a heavy smoker. I myself have water vacuumed the seats with a carpet odor remover, wiped everything down and cleaned everything I could think would trap smoke (including changing the cabin air filter) and the smell is still persistent. Is there any Regina businesses that you’ve been to that have removed a smoke odor from your car? Thank you in advance.
My boyfriend and I have been together for roughly 3.5 years, it’s the longest relationship I’ve been in so I’m not sure if this is normal in long term relationships. He currently has 2 jobs which require him to be gone for 4 days in a row out of town. I have been feeling a little neglected by his absence because we typically can only see eachother once a week for a few hours, this has resulted in a few smaller fights.
2 days ago however we had a bigger fight about something he says/does that I’ve told him multiple times makes me upset/uncomfortable, basically I felt like he wasn’t listening to me mixed with feeling like we are distant in general. He texted me saying things like “what are we doing”, “all we do is fight” and then called me crying saying he’s not happy in the relationship and he doesn’t know what to do.
I was a little thrown off because yes lately we have been bickering more but it isn’t all the time like he said to me it wasn’t that bad. I flat out asked him if he’s breaking up with me over the phone and he said “I don’t know”, we kept talking and I told him something along the lines of “I am happy in our relationship I don’t think we fight all the time” and that if he wanted to end the relationship it would have to be a decision he makes himself.
In the end he picked me up and brought flowers, chocolates, etc… and said he’s grateful for me blah blah blah. But I’m still a little in my head about the fact he wasn’t listening actually going to break up with me and that if I didn’t “fight” for us he would have given up. It makes me scared for if we have kids, get married, or have to do actual long distance. Has anyone gone through something similar, what was your experience?
Also for context he doesn’t have 2 jobs for financial reasons more because he has a better paying job and one he can see his friends with as a causal.