28F / Damsel in distress 🧸 seeking her caregiver knight in shining armor ⚔️
In a fantasy world full of monsters and ghouls, this tiny little lady is tired of acting thought, fighting away demons on her own with merely pitchfork. I need a man who takes genuine pride in being a caregiver, a protector, and a provider to the princess he loves.
Find your seat, for the bard’s singing is about to start. A tale as old as time, about a little lady so devine:
🎵 One fair lady waits in an island far,
Hoping her knight shall find her fast.
For when the night brings shadows near,
She needs a strong hand to calm her fear.
So come, brave knight, and take her hand,
With steady heart and guiding star.
For this little flower seeks one true and kind,
A loving heart with strength entwined. 🎵
(Delusional standing ovation happening inside my head)
And I understand everyone’s fear of scammers and no way in The Seven Kingdom I will ask for a single groschen from a stranger. I just don’t want to spend a full moon being attached to someone, only for them to not have the capacity to be kind, generous, and provide for me.
Because as a first born eldest daughter, I’m tired of moving mountains, killing dragons, for my loved one, only for them to hesitate, when I need a little hand. A person can only be so afraid of asking for help before she starts to crumble to dust.
So, ideally, after our heart collide, this shy little lady will be your demanding princess and queen. And if you’re ready to accept this quest, message me with an opener of “Henry, has come to see us” to make sure you have come this far.
Now for the quest reward you’ll be grinding for: another tale about me.
A girl who hides from the world in her little quiet corner. My age regression is constant and has been a hassle in trying to do chores and finishing my own side quest. My little age would be 7 - 12, where I spent most of the time playing game, watching anime (culturally speaking, anime is more common than cartoon in my TV back when I was young), my little’ favorite would be 🧸:
Hoshi no Kabi (Kirby)
One Piece
Detective Conan
Hey Arnold! (For cartoon)
My big’s favorite would be ⚔️:
Gintama
Saiki Kusuo no Sai Nan Wikia
Made in Abyss
I also love to play game so much, I’ve been gaming since I was a kid, as little me, I love playing 🧸:
Any game with character creation, I can spend bazillion hours trying to create a character on Baldur’s Gate 3 and The Sims 4, or inZoi. It’s basically a dress up game for me
Any game with Shin-chan and Spongebob
I love puzzles game where I had to squint my eyes to find hidden objects, used to play it with momma as a kid
By big’s favorite games are ⚔️:
Baldur’s Gate 3
Clair Obscur: Expedition 33
Red Dead Redemption 2
The Witcher 3
Kingdom Come Deliverance
Personality wise: Big me is pretty attentive, and cares alot about my caregiver as well. It’s a first daughter’s trait I can’t pretend I don’t have. I’m very empathetic. I’m basically the version of caregiver I’m looking for. That’s why it’s pretty tiring giving my everything to someone who isn’t a caregiver himself because often times it’s not reciprocal. Meanwhile, little me just want to shut her brain, do what he said, being micromanaged, to the most small thing as shower and meals.
Style wise, I wear whatever I have. As you can see in my attached photos, black is what I like, and medieval is the vibe I’m trying to show. Sure, pink baby stuff sounds amazing, and I would love them but in this economy, I just can’t afford it myself unfortunately.
What I’m looking for in my caregiver:
Attentive as well, and initiative and love to make plans, after all even as little I still have hard time asking for something
Gifting gift as a love language would be amazing, but we need time to get there, we should build trust, and chemistry, but before doing so I would love to understand that receiving gift is a big part of my love language and I feel really unworthy without it
Communicative, I care and respect your boundaries as much as I hope you respect and care about mine, I want us to both be open about everything
You don’t have to be perfect, big me appreciates vulnerability and you being as humane and as imperfect as anyone else, even little me would love to hug you when you’re sad, so let’s share the burden together
Can help with micromanaging me because I have ADHD, having someone to remind me of stuff, and encourage me, giving me quest, goals, direction, would be amazing
I never want to be fully dependent on you but I need to know that I can depend on you when I need it, after all teaching someone how to fish is always better than simply giving them the fish.
I live in Southeast Asia, and would love to move wherever you are. It will require me to find job near you, which I’m capable of. But I can’t do it alone if you want to close the gap. And we can talk about it more later.
If you have read this far, tell me your hobbies too, do you play game as well? And I honestly prefer talking oh discord, if you don’t have one I hope you’d make an effort to create them for me. I love discord so much, my ID is skikusu. I prefer to say HENLO in voice note, than typing long form cause I’m tired.