r/r4rindonesia

Update Offline Matchmaking — August & September 2026 💌

Update Offline Matchmaking — August & September 2026 💌

Good day everyoneeee! 💘

Monthly update combined because August was me trying to survive 😭😭😭😭

August: no matches huhu
I was onboarding at my old company and everything was being thrown at me, so I didn’t have enough time to properly review, interview, and think through potential matches. I'm terribly sorry for this one :(

September: we’re backkk!
Successfully matched 2 couples last month! 🥹💗

Dropping a little picture from one of our September offline blind dates here too 📸💌

October: hopefully more dates incoming yaaayy
I’m planning to start matching again this month! If you’re already registered, please keep an eye out for an email from me if I reach out to schedule your casual interview. Also, please check your spam/junk folder from time to time yaaa. My email has apparently been sending too many matchmaking-related emails and is now getting flagged as spam. Gmail is sabotaging my biro jodoh career.

Current registration pool
75 gentlemen
31 ladies

The numbers are growinggg and I’m actually really happy to see more people joining 🥹 But yes, we still have quite the gender gap tapi gapapalah ya.

So to all the single ladies who are reading this, don’t be shy pleasee. And if you have a single friend who might be interested, send this to her too. We need youuu!!

As always, thank you for everyone who’s been patient with me, trusted the process, filled out the form honestly, and gave feedback. This thing takes quite a bit of time behind the scenes, but seeing people actually meet because of it still makes me very happy 🥹

See you in October! Hopefully more first dates, less Gmail spam, and maybe a few unexpected love stories along the way 👀💘

With love,

u/Right-War-8357

u/Right-War-8357 — 12 days ago

21[M4R] Looking for running buddies in jakarta

Im new in jakarta, cus i just got accepted to work at jaksel and have been here for 3 months now

little about me, im 169/75kg guy trying to lose weight and work as Fullstack Dev for an Event Organizer company while doing uni, i forgot my mbti but im extroverted cus i love meeting new peeps but im not ready to join any new community. not long ago i became a tour guide for a pakistani guy i met on reddit.

I dont know much abt jakarta but curently im trying to explore and meet more people. but for running, my go to is GBK now because i dont know that many running routes yet.

as for running, i just started doing it and my longest run is 5k and my pace is 7.30 so im basically an amateur.

and if you want to know me better i love perfumes (building my collection rn), the movie oldboy, brad pitt, al pacino, ghibli, chiikawa, anime, manga and im decent at Tekken 8 but i dont play games anymore cus of work and uni got in the way.

I always run at tuesday night, friday night, and weekend, HMU it you want to run together or if we share same interest and you want to hangout with me!

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u/SawoGosong — 10 days ago

21M looking for bandmates to jam in Jakarta

Hi im a college student in Jakarta, i play bass and guitar too but not that good, im looking for a friend or anyone thats down to jam with me.

I mostly listen to 70s Punk/Rock music like Johnny Thunders, Dead Boys, New York Dolls and even a little bit of Rockabilly like Stray Cats.

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u/Environmental-Stay11 — 11 days ago