u/Right-War-8357

Update Offline Matchmaking — August & September 2026 💌

Update Offline Matchmaking — August & September 2026 💌

Good day everyoneeee! 💘

Monthly update combined because August was me trying to survive 😭😭😭😭

August: no matches huhu
I was onboarding at my old company and everything was being thrown at me, so I didn’t have enough time to properly review, interview, and think through potential matches. I'm terribly sorry for this one :(

September: we’re backkk!
Successfully matched 2 couples last month! 🥹💗

Dropping a little picture from one of our September offline blind dates here too 📸💌

October: hopefully more dates incoming yaaayy
I’m planning to start matching again this month! If you’re already registered, please keep an eye out for an email from me if I reach out to schedule your casual interview. Also, please check your spam/junk folder from time to time yaaa. My email has apparently been sending too many matchmaking-related emails and is now getting flagged as spam. Gmail is sabotaging my biro jodoh career.

Current registration pool
75 gentlemen
31 ladies

The numbers are growinggg and I’m actually really happy to see more people joining 🥹 But yes, we still have quite the gender gap tapi gapapalah ya.

So to all the single ladies who are reading this, don’t be shy pleasee. And if you have a single friend who might be interested, send this to her too. We need youuu!!

As always, thank you for everyone who’s been patient with me, trusted the process, filled out the form honestly, and gave feedback. This thing takes quite a bit of time behind the scenes, but seeing people actually meet because of it still makes me very happy 🥹

See you in October! Hopefully more first dates, less Gmail spam, and maybe a few unexpected love stories along the way 👀💘

With love,

u/Right-War-8357

u/Right-War-8357 — 12 days ago
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[HIRING] Multiple Positions - Full-time - Jakarta (Sudirman, On-site)

Hiii, gue lagi looking for talents untuk beberapa positions di bawah ini:

1. IT Network Manager

  • Hands-on experience implementing SD-WAN
  • Experience working with AWS Cloud

2. Marketing Manager

  • Strong creative & strategic thinking
  • Experience developing and executing campaigns
  • Comfortable managing the relationship between the company and external agencies

3. Business Process & SOP Specialist

  • Experience in SOP development
  • Ideally holds Lean Six Sigma and/or ISO certification
  • SAP experience would be a plus

4. Identity & Access Management (IAM) Manager

  • Minimum 7 years of relevant experience
  • Strong experience in Identity & Access Management

Location: Headquarters, Sudirman, Jakarta
Employment: Full-time
Compensation: Competitive, depending on experience

If you know someone who might be a good fit, feel free to send me their profile/CV or DM me directly if you think you might be the right candidate.

Happy to share more details via DM. Thank you!

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u/Right-War-8357 — 2 months ago

Update Offline Matchmaking July 2026

Heeeyyy!! 💘

I wanna share a monthly update again hihihi.

Okay, first of all… July belum ada pasangan yang berhasil aku match yet, please forgive me hehehe 🥹

I recently went back to work at the same office again, while also trying to finish up my thesis, so the past few weeks have been very packed. I really didn’t want to force a match just for the sake of saying “July ada match” when I wasn’t confident enough about the pairing.

BUTTTT there is actually some good news!! Our registration pool keeps growing 🥹💌

So far we now have 98 registrations in total, 27 ladies and 71 gentlemen.

Which means, yes, the gap is still very real lollz. But compared to last month, we’re definitely moving in the right direction!!

And I have some exciting news for August too. There are already a few people I’m currently considering, and I’m hoping August will finally bring us some matches. Hopefully the curation turns into something good and, who knows, maybe into something even better after the date.

One small but important reminder for everyone who has registered, if you receive an invitation from me for a casual interview, please just be yourself yaaa. I’m not looking for the best version of you or trying to catch you off guard. I just wanna make sure that the person I’m talking to actually matches the person described in the Google Form. Because sometimes, paper compatibility looks good, but the person behind the form is what actually matters. Just tell me about yourself normally, the same way you would when talking to someone new. And don’t worry, the interview is conducted securely, and your information will be kept private!

For those who have already registered but haven't received a match yet, please bear with me a little longer. I know waiting can be annoying, but you also know how the gender ratio is looking right now. I’d rather take my time and find you someone who actually fits than randomly pair you with someone just because I have an empty slot.

And for those who haven’t registered yet… well… what are you waiting for! Especially to all the single ladies reading this, please don't be shy to join!! 🥹💗 And yes, please send this to your single friends too. Maybe your friend is literally someone's potential match and neither of them knows it yet lol.

As always, thank you so much for trusting me with something as personal as dating and meeting someone new. I really appreciate everyone who has been patient, supportive, and willing to give me feedback throughout this whole process.

Hopefully August will be a good month for us 🏹💌

Lots of love,

u/Right-War-8357

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u/Right-War-8357 — 2 months ago

Update Offline Matchmaking June 2026

Good day everyoneeee! 💘

As usual, monthly update time hihihi

This month, we successfully matched 3 couples! 🥹 It's been such a fun (and surprisingly challenging) experience for me too. Every month, I'm learning more and trying to sharpen my instincts when it comes to matching people

So far we've had 67 registrations in total: 14 ladies and 53 gentlemen. Thank you SO so much to everyone who's trusted me enough to sign up!!

...but as you can probably tell, we really need more ladies 🥹 If you've been thinking about joining, maybe this is your sign to give it a try! Or, if you know a single girl who might enjoy meeting someone this way, send her this post and encourage her to register!!

I'm also always open to feedback yaaa. If there's anything you think could make the experience better, maybe the registration process, the matching process, or the event itself, pretty please let me know in the comments or send me a DM. I'd love to hear your thoughts!!

Once again, thank you for trusting me with something as personal as this 💋

And yes, I attached one of the matched couple's photos so you can see how it's been going hehehehe

Lots of love,

u/Right-War-8357

u/Right-War-8357 — 3 months ago

Update Offline Matchmaking May 2026

Hiii apa kabarnyaa guys? I wanna give a small update from meee 💌

First of all, thank you so much to everyone who has signed up so far!!!

As of today, we have 33 male applicants and 10 female applicants. So yes, the ratio is still pretty unbalanced hahaha. Personally, I'd love to see more women joining so I can create more potential matches. Feel free yaaa girliess 🥹

The exciting news, we already have our first matched pair, and they'll be meeting offline this week yayyy

With the new applicants coming in, I'll also be working on matching more couples over the next few weeks. As always, I'd rather take my time and match thoughtfully than rush things kan berbayar juga soalnyaaa

Thank you again for trusting me with this. More updates soon 😗

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u/Right-War-8357 — 4 months ago
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Offline Blind Date Matchmaking 2026 — Jaksel (Ongoing Program)

Hiii all! Apa kabarnyaaa? Miss youu!! 💌

We’re backkk btw!!! And this time, we’re doing things a little differently.

Following Batch 1 (which went better than I expected 🥹), we’ve decided to turn this into an ongoing offline matchmaking program. So no more waiting for batches. Selama ada potential match, we’ll keep it going yayyy.

So here’s how it works now:

Just like before, all matches are fully handpicked yaa. But this time, we’re taking it a bit more seriously.

After you fill in the form, I’ll review and shortlist profiles every 1–2 weeks.
If I see a strong potential match, I’ll reach out and schedule a short online interview with you. Yes… interview 😆

But super chill kok amann yaa, it’s just to understand your vibe better, beyond what’s written on the form. Because from Batch 1, I learned that on paper cocok ≠ actually cocok in real life lol.

Once you’re matched:

You’ll be paired with one person and just like before:

  • No chatting beforehand
  • First conversation happens langsung at the venue
  • One couple per table (no group setting)

We’ll coordinate everything for you, you just need to show up and be present.

A small note on commitment:

To keep this sustainable (and to make sure everyone is serious), there will be a IDR 100K fee once you are successfully matched.

There might also be a restaurant down payment, depending on the venue.

I know adding a fee changes things a bit 🥹 but it also allows me to filter more seriously, invest more time in curating matches, and avoid last-minute drop-offs (yes, learned this the hard way 🥲)

A few important things to keep in mind:

  • This is for single participants only
  • Currently heterosexual matching only
  • Minimum age: 18+
  • All matches are curated manually
  • Any dishonesty or disrespectful behavior = immediate blacklist

We’ll assign curated spots around Jaksel (no random places), with a recommended budget of around IDR 150K per person.

We’re also being more selective this time, less crowded, more comfy buat ngobrol.

Sooo here’s the form:
https://forms.gle/x6MBr7Hn6QpYif6n8

Take your time filling it yaa, the more honest you are, the better I can match you.

I genuinely believe this can be something special. Not just dating, but a well-curated first meeting, where both people actually have a chance.

So… if you’re ready, go for it 💌

And if you have any questions or thoughts, feel free to drop them in the comments or DM me!!

Have a good day ahead ❤️

With love,
u/Right-War-8357

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u/Right-War-8357 — 4 months ago