u/Right-War-8357

Update Offline Matchmaking May 2026

Hiii apa kabarnyaa guys? I wanna give a small update from meee 💌

First of all, thank you so much to everyone who has signed up so far!!!

As of today, we have 33 male applicants and 10 female applicants. So yes, the ratio is still pretty unbalanced hahaha. Personally, I'd love to see more women joining so I can create more potential matches. Feel free yaaa girliess 🥹

The exciting news, we already have our first matched pair, and they'll be meeting offline this week yayyy

With the new applicants coming in, I'll also be working on matching more couples over the next few weeks. As always, I'd rather take my time and match thoughtfully than rush things kan berbayar juga soalnyaaa

Thank you again for trusting me with this. More updates soon 😗

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u/Right-War-8357 — 5 days ago
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Offline Blind Date Matchmaking 2026 — Jaksel (Ongoing Program)

Hiii all! Apa kabarnyaaa? Miss youu!! 💌

We’re backkk btw!!! And this time, we’re doing things a little differently.

Following Batch 1 (which went better than I expected 🥹), we’ve decided to turn this into an ongoing offline matchmaking program. So no more waiting for batches. Selama ada potential match, we’ll keep it going yayyy.

So here’s how it works now:

Just like before, all matches are fully handpicked yaa. But this time, we’re taking it a bit more seriously.

After you fill in the form, I’ll review and shortlist profiles every 1–2 weeks.
If I see a strong potential match, I’ll reach out and schedule a short online interview with you. Yes… interview 😆

But super chill kok amann yaa, it’s just to understand your vibe better, beyond what’s written on the form. Because from Batch 1, I learned that on paper cocok ≠ actually cocok in real life lol.

Once you’re matched:

You’ll be paired with one person and just like before:

  • No chatting beforehand
  • First conversation happens langsung at the venue
  • One couple per table (no group setting)

We’ll coordinate everything for you, you just need to show up and be present.

A small note on commitment:

To keep this sustainable (and to make sure everyone is serious), there will be a IDR 100K fee once you are successfully matched.

There might also be a restaurant down payment, depending on the venue.

I know adding a fee changes things a bit 🥹 but it also allows me to filter more seriously, invest more time in curating matches, and avoid last-minute drop-offs (yes, learned this the hard way 🥲)

A few important things to keep in mind:

  • This is for single participants only
  • Currently heterosexual matching only
  • Minimum age: 18+
  • All matches are curated manually
  • Any dishonesty or disrespectful behavior = immediate blacklist

We’ll assign curated spots around Jaksel (no random places), with a recommended budget of around IDR 150K per person.

We’re also being more selective this time, less crowded, more comfy buat ngobrol.

Sooo here’s the form:
https://forms.gle/x6MBr7Hn6QpYif6n8

Take your time filling it yaa, the more honest you are, the better I can match you.

I genuinely believe this can be something special. Not just dating, but a well-curated first meeting, where both people actually have a chance.

So… if you’re ready, go for it 💌

And if you have any questions or thoughts, feel free to drop them in the comments or DM me!!

Have a good day ahead ❤️

With love,
u/Right-War-8357

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u/Right-War-8357 — 5 days ago