u/Dear-Permit-3033

While I believe that women can be great leads or follows, I'm beginning to wonder if men (in general, not as exception) can become good followers. Nature doesn't make male bodies as flexible as women's. Our hip rotation and disassociation is nowhere near as much as women's. So men's ochos typically feel very different. Even our walking isn't the same due to the differences in pelvic motion. Our muscle development is very different from women's muscles. On average can tangueros become as good followers as tangueras, or is there just a nature-imposed ceiling?

Do older or middle-aged people dance bachata, especially in North America or is it mostly people in 20's and 30's? What is the oldest age you have seen anyone dance at socials, as a leader or a follower?