u/Deblee9779

To fathers who care about your children...

Hypothetically, if you didn't have full custody of your small child (2-5 years old), how often would you want to visit with him?

For example, a couple hours every week? A full day each weekend? Every two weeks? Once a month?

What's the norm? I know men tend to be less attached, or that's the idea anyway. Please lemme know what is the reality for dads.

Edit: my bad, I have heard men are less attached overall, but clearly that's a misconception & probably skewed by my own experience of seeing detached and disengaged men in my own life & family dynamics 🥴

My son (just turned 4) attends a pre-school daycare program where they typically get to watch a movie in the afternoons around 3 or 4pm.

That on its own bothers me, but it is what it is...

I recently found out he watched the movie K-Pop Demon Hunters at school, and that really bothers me.

Tonight he brought it up again and said something about a demon coming.

I'm deeply bothered because I don't think this is anywhere near age appropriate, plus I'm a Christian and I don't believe in exposing children to such things

Now that I know he's clearly watched it there and seen it enough to have it on his mind at home, I want to say something to the daycare.

What do I say? Who do I say it to?

Do I just tell his teachers I don't want them watching that movie? Do I explain my point of view or just state that it's not age appropriate? Should I tell someone higher up than the teachers, so all teachers know?

He has two main teachers, but often other teachers within the daycare cover the class in the afternoon.

Advice appreciated, thanks