Divorced 2 years with three kids. Oldest snd his mother have a fractured relationship. She tells him he is mentally ill. Has tried to have him put in a mental hospital, calls the cops on him frequently in arguments over things like curfews and screen-time. Ludicrous. He is a sweet kid. 14 now.
I was awarded 80% custody of him due to some of the more wild accusations she has made about him and my son signing an affidavit of election. Other boys are still 50/50.
That order is now signed. But last night she kicked him out, called me screaming at midnight and told me to come get him. Told him to his face that he is “not welcome in the home.” And she says she feels “unsafe.” Does not want him back.
I recorded the conversation. She is swearing and sounds unhinged. I sent to their reunification therapist and separately to my lawyer.
Do I sue her for full custody? Or let it lie and just let him stay with me? I am concerned the pattern will repeat again with the other boys when they are older