did i out him even though he’s out?
so my friend is gay, pretty out and it’s clear when you spend 5 minutes with him pretty much. we were in a friend group with a girl and she’s just unaware that he is gay and they’ve been friends for awhile. he always thought it was funny and everyone else around us knew but he didn’t want to “come out” to her so he never said anything and hoped she’d eventually come to realize. i accidentally said something about him being gay without even thinking because it’s not a secret for him. she’s quite upset but not homophobic just more she’s upset everyone else knew and not her and i’m feeling terrible like he’s going to be so so so mad at me but it was just a big mistake to say and i’ve made a big cluster fuck out of everything. i know i messed up to preface but would you end the friendship with me because of it? am i terrible?