u/Delicious_Apple9082

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WIBTAH - Friends splitting up

So, names changed, because thats the done thing...

Simon and Natalie have been married for about 10 years, together for 15+, Nat has 2 kids from an ex, one lives at 'home' with them, the other moved out a while back, they lived in a small 2 bed, then moved back into her family home, they extended and put her mother in the 'granex' then then sold, her mom moved out, they then bought a decent sized house and are also debt free.

5/6 years ago, Simon changed jobs, this put him in a position where he was getting close to a co-worker, he ended up sleeping with her, he told his wife Natalie, he moved out for a while, she then took him back, he said he wold work on things, but not enough for her, since she took him back, while he has changed a bit, its not enough for her and shes changed jobs and has now started sleeping with 2 other guys (Shes deffo the AH here as one of the guys has just had a kid and the other has a fiance, but the 2 'other' guys know about eachother).

Recently she has told Simon that its not working, and shes not getting what she needs from the relationship and that things haven't changed enough for her, he, is blaming it all on himself and what he did, because she hasn't been honest with him.

My friend and I think he should know the truth, as she's basically now saying that the house was bought primarily with her inheritance so she wants to give him 100k and then them split, however, they're married, so it should be 50/50, and we think that shes not telling him the truth as it'll have financial implications on her, and once its all signed and done, then she'll care less about the truth coming out and he's got 1/3rd rather than half..

ESH from the POV that they've both stepped out, but, he told her the truth, and even changed jobs to get out of the situation he out himself in, and she still took him back, knowing the truth..

So, should Simon find out the truth, directly, by giving Nat an opportunity to tell him, or, he gets an anonymous note or something...

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u/Delicious_Apple9082 — 2 days ago

VR Headset Mouse

Is it possible to enable a mouse pointer in VR, so I can look at buttons etc and then have a lmb/rmb on my HOTAS somewhere so I can look and clock stuff?

Trying to find ways to make things a bit easier.

I've got a Streamdeck which has some stuff on it (3d printed desk slider thing), which helps, I use an open FI so can see that easily enough, and have 2 Mini's (On my left/right HOTAS, not connected atm) that I can also use if needs be, but was thinking that it might be easier to just look and click, or maybe use a HOTAS axis to be a 'mouse' in game (F16+shaker, F15EX) as I have room for that, just wondering if the look/click thing was possible, or if I should just look at my button layouts.

Ta

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u/Delicious_Apple9082 — 10 days ago

Anyone found some decent aftermarket ones?

I've taken my extruder and removed the cutter enough for a couple of the stock screws to round out a bit.

Wanna have a couple of spares for the next maintenance run and swap them out.

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u/Delicious_Apple9082 — 21 days ago