WIBTAH - Friends splitting up
So, names changed, because thats the done thing...
Simon and Natalie have been married for about 10 years, together for 15+, Nat has 2 kids from an ex, one lives at 'home' with them, the other moved out a while back, they lived in a small 2 bed, then moved back into her family home, they extended and put her mother in the 'granex' then then sold, her mom moved out, they then bought a decent sized house and are also debt free.
5/6 years ago, Simon changed jobs, this put him in a position where he was getting close to a co-worker, he ended up sleeping with her, he told his wife Natalie, he moved out for a while, she then took him back, he said he wold work on things, but not enough for her, since she took him back, while he has changed a bit, its not enough for her and shes changed jobs and has now started sleeping with 2 other guys (Shes deffo the AH here as one of the guys has just had a kid and the other has a fiance, but the 2 'other' guys know about eachother).
Recently she has told Simon that its not working, and shes not getting what she needs from the relationship and that things haven't changed enough for her, he, is blaming it all on himself and what he did, because she hasn't been honest with him.
My friend and I think he should know the truth, as she's basically now saying that the house was bought primarily with her inheritance so she wants to give him 100k and then them split, however, they're married, so it should be 50/50, and we think that shes not telling him the truth as it'll have financial implications on her, and once its all signed and done, then she'll care less about the truth coming out and he's got 1/3rd rather than half..
ESH from the POV that they've both stepped out, but, he told her the truth, and even changed jobs to get out of the situation he out himself in, and she still took him back, knowing the truth..
So, should Simon find out the truth, directly, by giving Nat an opportunity to tell him, or, he gets an anonymous note or something...