AIO because my BF said he can't trust me because I won't "look out" for his addiction
For context, we got into an argument about him spending my money on his cashapp card and it somehow escalated to him asserting that he only stopped smoking because he doesn't have the money, can't get a loan and I won't (or can't) look out.
I'm royally pissed because he's been unemployed for about 11 months and at least 3 times I asked if he would take a break from smoking because it's crazy to spend $100+ a week on a habit when your income is an unemployment check!
Additionally, I found out that he stopped paying our gas and electric by putting us on a hardship plan...that still required payments! But he just didn't pay them. The electric was nearly shut off last week but I paid it. His phone was cut off about 3 months ago. And btw he just stopped smoking 2 days ago.
I'm just so mad that he's mad at me when all I ever asked of him was to sacrifice smoking. I sacrificed smoking because I got pregnant, that became my priority. But I don't understand how he still prioritized smoking over bills and a baby otw. Nothing could make this man change his stride no matter how much I tried to reason with him.
Now I'm just at home feeling like the bad guy because apparently I'm two faced or not on his side or whatever, I'm not even sure what he means because I've been consistent with my requests and what bothers me. AIO??