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For some reason I thought this was Fi-Se. Feeling something immediately in response to an action but not being able to identify exactly what you felt until later on. Is this true for Se-Fi?

I’m into astrology and was wondering what you guys would guess!!

I’ve always been debating between ISFP or ESFP for context. (Copy and pasted a short description of myself I wrote down below)

Se has always been a no brainer for me, initially during Covid I thought I was an ISTP and then ESTP, until I learned about the Fi/Te axis and I was like holy shit wait that’s me😂. Never really could tell whether I prioritized Se or Fi more though.

Why I think I’m Se dom? Feels like my brain is empty the majority of the time and I literally like don’t process anything. Im really observant and attuned to the noises and things around me. I love challenging myself, mainly physically. I don’t like to over analyze things or reflect on my life. It exhausts me when I get too stuck in that mode and I feel like I’m just fucked. So to cope with that I go for a run or do something physically taxing to relax myself and I feel my best afterwards and approach whatever I was struggling with initially with a clear mind. (Essentially, I’m unaware of how I feel a lot of the time and when I sit back to reflect I get anxious until I physically get rid of the energy). Then I end up just moving on

And then with Ni and Te, it’s like I love organization, sometimes I find it relaxing or fun to clean or make little playlists. I feel like I have OCD sometimes cus I like to do little things like eating my food in a specific order like finish the chicken, then rice, then veggies. So it’s giving Tertiary (Child) Te but then also I feel like when I get upset or really down I dissociate and think the world is going to end or I say something stupid, get ghosted and Im like oh my god that was so corny fml they hate me. So that’s giving Inferior Ni, jumping to conclusions and thinking I solved it when in reality the person is just busy and not checking their phone 😂.

On the flip side, I think I may have inferior Te because I do get really cold and detached and could become harsh with what I say if I’m not left alone. And I can procrastinate when I feel like something takes up too much energy until I finally put myself to do it and I just get it over with and realize it wasn’t bad at all.

As a kid, I got told shit like all I cared about was having fun or hanging out with my friends. In highschool I prioritized my social life over school. In college I developed some goals for myself and worked really hard at the gym, prioritizing my wellbeing & career success over friendships, while still cutting out time to connect and hangout with others, whose friendships were worth it or new to me, when it worked for me because connecting with others is what prevents me from feeling ‘depressed’ loosely 😂 and makes me happy.

Debating between 2 very similar mbti types for a couple of years now so I’m interested in what yall guess! (DONT READ COMMENTS UNLESS YOU WANT A SPOILER 😂)

Lil description of myself: A HUGE gym rat. Talking about going every single day for at least an hour, doing cardio and lifting as part of my routine. Wake up super early every morning at like 6 am for some odd reason even when I go to sleep at 12-1 😂. Love online shopping & going out w friends. Obsessed w Greek froyo and force everyone to get it with me (there’s a huge trend in the city for it recently😛). Not the biggest fan of small talk unless I wanna get with somebody. Otherwise will only create small conversation if I’m getting to know someone new but people who don’t approach me may think I’m antisocial. I’m really friendly and always smiling or giggling. I get super enthusiastic easily over small things and bubbly if I’m happy. I’m a very emotional but logical person. If I’m upset or feeling sad, I tend to become detached. I hate being left out and do experience fomo & I love going to concerts AND MUSIC. I also cook 👩‍🍳. Recently fractured my foot in May while summiting 2 of the 46ers in the Adirondacks. Still finished the hike like a badass 😂 couldn’t walk for 4 weeks and went to the gym in crutches.