u/Dense_Ad_1359

Just as the title says, Id like help trialing Vae/Vim/Veir further. I've told people before I'm ok with he/him but it feels like that was a mistake, as now everyone except some friends (who are adjusting and still he/him me alot) refer to me with those. it's not wrong which is why I said I don't mind he/him, but I'm almost never referred to by what I feel like I much prefer, even if I'm uncertain on if I've got the neopronouns exactly correct yet.

(not super comfortable sharing my name, plus unsure on that anyways due to it being used by fem people too, but if you're gonna use a name to talk about me, people always nickname me Doge, so I'm used to that) ((no it's not the usual Reddit reasons, I loved the original 2012 meme))

any advice on also how to ask others to refer to me with neos and how to go about explaining it to those who are unfamiliar, or are the kind of people to just say "but that's confusing why can't I just use he/him" would be appreciated, I'm also considering going purely Vae/Vim for some time just in hopes of getting others used to it, as well as myself

This may seem like the answer is really obvious, but to me it's a vague instruction that could mean anything. I know doing this is very important yet I can never figure out how to do it. When I try to "think about my lines" nothing really comes of it, I just don't understand what exactly I'm doing with that, and it doesn't help that regardless of anything, I always end up on autopilot just drawing lines without thought anyways as that's how my flow state works when drawing. If someone could explain as detailed as they can how to do this, that'd be a major help for me in improving as a complete beginner!

(attempting to repost following a vague "reddit filters removed your post" im very sorry if this isnt allowed?)
What I'm trying to ask here is if I would indeed fall under genderqueer, if I can use neopronouns I find fitting, or if there's perhaps something else I'd fall under (tldr i guess)

I'm a transmasc dude, I can say for certain I'm masculine and I go by masculine terms, although while the pronouns he/him are ok I found more comfort in neopronouns, but I'm unsure if I'm 'allowed' to use those? (especially because I altered them to be more 'me'.) I've begun questioning my gender once again despite thinking my egg cracking was gonna be it, now I can't help but always think, is there anything like this I can refer to myself instead? I'm wondering if I may fall under genderqueer as I questioned if I was perhaps non-binary which is very similar, but since I'm still very masc in my gender I don't think I fall outside the binary to go by that term.