This has probably been asked before but figured i’d get a more up to date response. I’ve tried regular apps that let u pick asexual as an option but they kinda suck ngl.
I (F 22) am finishing up my first of two years in grad school getting an MA in forensic psychology and if all goes well I should graduate spring 2027. I graduate undergrad in psych in spring 2025. I’m just not sure what to do next. I wanna get a PhD in legal psychology but i don’t know where to look to find good schools. I also wasn’t sure where to post this so I figured parents might be a bit more educated on all this stuff.
I want to ultimately be a competency evaluator in the court system and help incompetent ppl who frequently get screwed over by the courts and police idk if that’s relevant to my school search though. Is there a website that will help me find good schools? Also what do u do for money in PhD schools? Some of these programs don’t let you work outside the college but I obviously need money right?
Also is this even the right move? Should I take a gap year since my last 22 almost 23 years have been all about school basically (i love school so that’s not the issue but i fear Im missing out on job experience). I have like part time jobs just random shit to pay my way but still nothing that’s I’ve gotten to use my degree for yet. Any advice or even stories of what you guys did would be very helpful.
This is not a medical question as he’s already been to the vet for this. Context is he’s a male cat 13 years old he pees and poops inside the litter box but then he pees outside sometimes to specifically the couch (when my dad used to sleep there but not anymore bc we keep the cushions up 24/7 so the cat doesn’t pee on it), inside my dads closest (we try to keep it closed so he doesn’t pee in there) and now he’s peeing in front of the washing machine. He also sometimes pees on the bathroom rug but only if it’s wet after someone showers so I think he’s just getting confused there bc “wet ground must meet I pee here”. He’s been to the vet literally 10 separate times for this bc I was scared (male cat + peeing issues = usually smth bad). The vet says there’s no medical issues and it might be behavioral. The cat hates my dad and I think he’s doing this as like a revenge thing but how do I make him stop. I don’t rlly wanna put him on behavioral medication bc that seems like a bit much esp when he’s fine literally any other time.
Side note to he lived with me in my college dorms for all four years and almost never peed except for once on my roommates bed (I felt so bad but she was a real bitch to me so again I think he’s doing it for revenge). Any advice to help him stop doing this?
Pretty much just the title. I am a lesbian and asexual and I do wanna date girls but I don’t rlly have any interest in having sex at all and im kinda repulsed about it i dont rlly know why. I do feel bad though like whoever i date is getting the short end of the stick by dating me since i wouldn’t wanna have sex. Is this anyone else’s experience? How do u find someone that’s ok with that? And how do u bring that up without making it awkward or weird?