u/Depressiwn

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I kinda like the GQOTN but I would have to trade my 4 " good " limiteds to get it. What would you consider this offer?

Hi. Long story short, I need to cut off a friend today. It came to a point where I’m avoiding them unconsciously, on purpose as well, but in general I started feeling uncomfortable around them. I feel like he pushes me to plans that I don’t really like, and even when I say why, he still kind of pushes it. Also, our conversations are mostly sexual, and now that I’m seeing someone it makes me uncomfortable, and also, he talks badly about people I’m okay with, and I feel really guilty hanging out with someone that’s talks shit about people I’m talking to/ hanging out with them.
Not only that, I started finding excuses to not see him or have any plans with him so I decided I need to be honest. I just don’t know how.
And as his graduation is on Thursday, I need to do it soon so he can at least replace me with someone else.
P.S: we have live360 together, and I feel really off about it since he can view my location, so I can’t lie. I need to be honest.

Hi guys,
Ive met this guy on Grindr, and I was surprised on how much we clicked. We have so many things in common, we have been talking for only one week, and we managed to see each other 4 times in one week, which I have never accomplished with someone before. Not only that, we like each other a lot, and I feel like we are very compatible. But, on the fourth time we met, we really opened up to each other about our health issues etc. I told him about my anxiety, phobias, panic attacks etc, and he was the most understandable, non judgemental person I have met ( for now), But he also opened up to me and told me about his medical issues as well, mentioning that he has a brain tumour, which probably explains why he goes to the doctors sometimes. I really need some advice, please. I know it's really early on, but he wanted to protect himself from potential harm due to past rejections in his life, so I assume hee does not want to get attached to me, with the risk of me rejecting him. Any questions I should ask? Any advice on how to handle this, or maybe even someone who had a similar situation? I am open to anything, please and thank you.