u/Depresso8

I feel like I often see discussions about attraction between femmes and butches or masc women, but not as much about androgynous women.

I'm more androgynous in how I present myself and don't particularly look girly, although I do enjoy feminine things sometimes.

I've never really experienced that mutual attraction with a very feminine-presenting woman, so I've found myself wondering how femmes generally feel about dating women like me.

I'm aware that everyone has their own preferences, and I'm not assuming all femmes like the same things. I'm genuinely curious, though. If you're femme and have been attracted to or dated an androgynous woman, what drew you to her? Is that a type you're naturally drawn to, or does it depend more on the individual?

I'd love to hear your experiences.

Hey everyone, I hope this comes across the right way, I’m asking out of genuine curiosity, not to be weird about it.

What do you personally find most attractive in a woman? It could be anything really, physical traits (like certain features or body types), personality, little mannerisms, the way someone carries themselves, or even something oddly specific you can’t quite explain.

Curious to hear your thoughts.