Delay for days on messaging me back, but appears online daily?
I had a really quick connection with someone I met online, which translated into a great FaceTime date and then an in-person (it moved to text almost immediately). She’s super engaging when I ask her questions, but she doesn’t seem very curious about me. A bit of a red flag there. I told her at the end of the date that I would like to see her again, and told her I don’t expect a response from her at that moment, but to let me know if she’d be interested.
She goes through conversation bursts and then doesn’t respond for 1/2/3 days (she did agree to a second date with no day set)
It’s been three days now, and I see she keeps showing “online today” in the app. I deleted the app last night (I’m no longer on any dating platforms since they are kind of misery machines). I’m now worried that looked like a passive aggressive mismatch but I’m hesitant to send her another text
Is this a lost cause?
Update:
Thank you everyone! I’m over it, and happy to re-focus in a more meaningful direction