u/DevelopmentInside874

As you can see by the title, I had my sleeve done on 9/30/26 which went super well! I’m currently in the liquid stage of the diet and I’m so ready for puréed foods 😭

As much as I keep thinking about the purée stage and eating normal foods, I keep thinking about prior to surgery how I would just eat a lot and not get full. I know it’s only liquids but right now I don’t get that “full” feeling I guess because I’m still just drinking liquids?

For those who were binge eaters, how did you overcome this??

I (26f) matched with the guy (27m) and we had such an amazing conversation on hinge, we were talking for a couple days on there and I’m talking like ALL day EVERYday we were talking on hinge and sending multiple paragraphs to each other he even went on to tell me verbatim “I don’t check my phone for anyone but you’ve made me want to, I look forward to seeing your messages”

After a couple days we decided to start regularly texting on iMessage and again we were talking everyday. He would give me updates, send me good morning texts, he had pet names for me all of that. We started to get pretty deep in with each other and I straight up told him that a lot of guys I’ve met on hinge have just ghosted me and that it’s a fear of mine which he reassured me that he wouldn’t do because he’s big on communication.

We decided that next week we would meet up with each other and see if the vibe was the same in person, he was super excited to meet me and the feeling was mutual but then yesterday I had texted him and there was no response so I decided to wait a couple hours cause at this point I know his work schedule and so I texted him later in the day and still no response. I messaged him on ig too just making sure everything was ok, and then I got blocked, I’m also blocked on iMessage too now. My fear came true and I just don’t get it. If he wasn’t interested he could’ve just said “hey I don’t think we should be talking to each other anymore”.

Like I said this isn’t the first time I’ve been ghosted but after talking to someone for a couple weeks and having a plan to meet each other in person I’m just let down, it always ends up the same way with hinge and bumble and I’m just really over the dating world at this point because if this is the pool that I have to choose from then what’s the point???

I gain new followers everyday but my views stay in the 100-200 range, 300 on a good day, but it’s pretty frustrating posting stuff and noticing that majority of my followers aren’t seeing it