u/Different-Let2290

i had sex 4 days post SA and feeling nervous + guilty . i used a condom and he pulled out as well . i checked after and filled the condom with water and there were no breaks . i’m just wondering if people went back to using condoms as a form of BC post termination and if i should be okay??

i was gonna go on hormonal birth control but my bf knows how bad it made me felt in the past and we both have no problem using condoms , prior to this , we have not used condoms for years and just used cycle tracking and would pull out on my fertile days . TIA !!!

want to go on birth control to prevent pregnancy but also scared to gain weight on it , as i’m actively on a weight loss journey and scared about the mental side effects. which ones have you been on that did not cause weight gain and helped your PMDD or at least did not make it worse ? thank you!