u/Different-Speed-1508

dad, i hate living abroad. im so homesick

i think i made a huge mistake by moving to a new country for my education in my early twenties. in theory, it was a very good idea. i had no particular future in my own country and i had a scholarship abroad. i thought missing the opportunity would be idiotic.

when i first got here i was so optimistic and hopeful. unfortunately this place has only served to make me the unhappiest ive been since i was in foster care, and im pretty resilient so i never saw this level of sadness coming.

i got a scholarship to spain seperate from my current uni, im gonna test my luck there too but if i cant do it for whatever reason i think i’ll just go back to my own country and try to make a living there.

i feel so ungrateful for feeling this way, i owe many people financially just to live here but unfortunately my mental health has gotten so bad over the months. i have one month left here before i go back to my own country for summer break and after that its spain. one month may not sound like a long time but when every day makes you feel more trapped its such a long time.

im doing what im here to do and excelling. im studying and getting solid grades and i will continue to do so but i need advice on how to get through this month.

perhaps im not as resilient as i thought i was. this is not for the weak. please give me some advice

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u/Different-Speed-1508 — 7 days ago

im in my early 20s and have identified as lesbian ever since i knew what that meant. now some random dude came into my life and it got me confused as fuck. i have nobody to talk to about this. it stresses me out so much. i dont know what i feel or what to do.

u/Different-Speed-1508 — 22 days ago