test your loyalty? I read they do break up tests, different manipulations, they push you to the edge to see if you break or not, if you stay or leave, they need emotional reaction or reassurance? Maybe any examples of tests ?
I would love to hear your experiences please. 🙏
losing obsession ? Someone i loved so intense, mostly in distance, i feel like I have been obsessed with him for 10 years and couldn’t let go.. I confessed to him after years, he knew about my feelings and loyalty to him.. only to tell ‘ he never asked for it’ and I need to find someone else, because he can’t return my feelings and is getting married. I need to move on and he needs to run and block, he can’t be involved
we never dated..he never gave us a chance to be, there were always mixed signs, but I gave him my time, energy and love supporting him, fighting for his love , writing messages and being ignored, ghosted
and it feels painful and sad he doesn’t want to see me or be in a relationship with me 😨
it is like I gave him all my heart and vulnerability, offered all the love and he doesn’t want anything with me, not even being friends.
to say I am mortified as not saying anything, stings and hurts 😫 how to live after all these years and being not needed , chosen ?
thank you 🙏 it’s very painful
makes you choose a woman ? and open up about your true feelings? her loyalty, looks? devotion to you? the tests you throw that she passes bravely ?
what makes you feel that she is the one? despite the age, culture or other differences you may have with her?
thank you! 🙏